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He had threatened to stick a knife in his exp p****

44 replies

Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 15:34

I truely hope that Jacqueline Jossa takes note of her partner's disgusting violent outburst to his exp mother of his son. Why can she not see that no good will come out of this and she should run very fast away from this situation. He is vile and did this whilst holding his son and issuing this threat.

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Macsmurray · 10/03/2015 15:35

No more or less funny than stories of women cutting their partners dick off. Both of which are equally evil and disgusting.

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 15:39

Sickening I didn't know what vile terms he used but I thought any threats especially in front of their child were disgusting but that is truely vile. Hope jacquline sees sense and has a good network support around her to detach from this man and I really hope that others show support to his ex who I think has had a shocking time in the press. She is on the at risk register now with the police as they think Dan is a threat to her that speaks for itself.
Towie need to sack this one pronto!

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Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 15:43

JJ is a young girl with a newborn and is in a vulnerable position. She may not see or realise that her partner is an emotional abuser. It's not the first time he has shown behaviour like this. Apparently JJ parents are sticking my her partner. That doesn't bode well as a support system and could lead to JJ being blinded to what is infront of her

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fabuleux · 10/03/2015 15:45

Wow I didn't know he'd said anything like that Shock I knew there had been toruble between him and his ex, Jaq is always posting their happy family pics on instagram trying to make everything out to be rosy Sad

fabuleux · 10/03/2015 15:46

*Trouble

WorraLiberty · 10/03/2015 15:55

I don't know who Jacqueline Jossa is, but I'm curious as to what the P in the thread title is?

Midori1999 · 10/03/2015 15:56

His comments are chilling. 'There are two sides to every story'. Funnily enough, my Mum said this to me when I was a victim of emotional abuse by my ex partner. I had also previously suffered domestic violence at his hands. It's the wide belief of comments like this that excuse and enable this behaviour IMO.

WorraLiberty · 10/03/2015 15:57

Oh I just googled and she plays Lauren Branning in Eastenders

She's 22 though so not a young girl

Either way, the guy sounds vile.

BuzzardBird · 10/03/2015 15:59

Worra I think he was referring to the poor woman's genitalia.

LittleBairn · 10/03/2015 16:03

He sounds like a very volatile person. I hope his current GF family are keeping a close eye on the situation.

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 16:05

JJ parents have moved in with her, Dan the baby think that is out of fear now all this has come out. He's is vile the words turned my stomach so graphic

emmelinelucas · 10/03/2015 16:07

If I had known about my exh and his violent past I would have run a mile.
Absolutely chilling.
It looks to me as though she has been thoroughly groomed, and he has got everyone on his side, so no support for Jacqueline when he racks up the abuse.
That is exactly what they do.
Ye Gods Sad

emmelinelucas · 10/03/2015 16:11

Sorry, Namechanged, not sure if I understand your post. Have her parents moved in to support her ?

Nomama · 10/03/2015 16:41

Are you all discussing an Eastender's plotline, or discussing the real life of a woman and her child?

I really must get up to date with the sleb magazines and gossip columns...

This is AIBU... so how are you BU, OP? Apart from posting in AIBU instead of Chat or Telly People or SOF.

BuzzardBird · 10/03/2015 16:48

I had to Google it Nomama but it appears the JJ is an actress from a Soap named 'Eastenders' of all things and that her partner of dubious character is from a reality programme named 'Towie'.

I have no idea who the unfortunate ex gf of the misogynistic male is.

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Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 16:48

She is standing by him. A good point emmeline. I would no way be playing happy family posing for selfie shots with him whilst he is holding their baby. He is a thug and nasty piece of work. It was recorded on tape what he said and his 14 month old son could be heard in the back ground. He swore on his sons life that he will carry out his threat should his exp move on with her life. Ffs JJ open your eyes and get rid of him

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Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 16:49

Yes Emme I read it somewhere this week 'to help with the baby' officially but now this has come out it reads rather differently :(

Koalafications · 10/03/2015 16:52

Yes, I read about this yesterday. It's not the first time he has threatened his ex, either.

I sincerely hope that both women keep themselves and their DC safe. He seems very volatile.

emmelinelucas · 10/03/2015 16:53

It is rl, Nomama.
When something is AIBU, but really doesn't belong there, I just don't respond to the question.

JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 16:54

My ex threatened my life. His gf knew and they apparently are very happy. Confused then he stepped up the abuse after separation and I was okis despite the EA when with him.

These women like JJ seem to think people like me deserve it and are jealous.

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 16:56

I'm pretty sure it was in their interview in ok magazine but can't see it on their website.
Yes sadly this is real life hope those children are both safe

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Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 16:59

Aibu in thinking that threatening to knife her in her privates is maybe what the title should have been. Regardless of where it was posted he is a vile bully and a threat to any women who pissses him off.

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Samcro · 10/03/2015 17:00

took a while to work out who this was. I always thought the whole set up was odd, his baby was tiny and then her went on to get someone else pregnant.
so judged them then.

emmelinelucas · 10/03/2015 17:01

So..her DPs are "helping with the baby"
I would like to think that they are supporting JJ and keeping an eye on him.
Or, he is rallying allies and isolating her in full view (it happens Sad)

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