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He had threatened to stick a knife in his exp p****

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Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 15:34

I truely hope that Jacqueline Jossa takes note of her partner's disgusting violent outburst to his exp mother of his son. Why can she not see that no good will come out of this and she should run very fast away from this situation. He is vile and did this whilst holding his son and issuing this threat.

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JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 17:02

He really messed that girl Jasmine about on TOWIE.

Koalafications · 10/03/2015 17:03

He said: "It has taken me a while to find the right words but I would like to say that I am truly sorry to anyone who was offended by what they heard.

"I am unable to talk about the difficulties with my current family situation but I am taking steps to resolve it to achieve the best outcome for my son. I am ashamed and embarrassed that I allowed myself to reach such a dark place that I behaved in a way that even I didn't recognise.

"While I acknowledge that there is absolutely no excuse for my deeply regrettable behaviour, I plead for some understanding that I had no intention of violence.

"There are always two sides to every story and all of my friends and family who are close to me know that I’m not a violent person capable of anything like this. My words were said in anger and desperation at a very difficult time."

He went on to add: "I love my son Teddy very much and I'm doing all that I can to see him as often as possible.

"I'm also very sorry to everyone at TOWIE that I have let down and thank them for their understanding and support while I take a short break to concentrate on my family."

No apology to his ex?

No, no, just 'his public'

Hmm
TheFairyCaravan · 10/03/2015 17:04

Her parents haven't moved in because of these tapes.

Their birth story was in OK magazine 2 weeks ago and Jacqueline said then that they had moved in to help. IIRC they had done the same when her sister had her children.

JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 17:06

Ah he is doing what my eX did covering it up by pretending she is not letting him have contact. That old chestnut.Hmm

Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 17:13

His apology reeks of him saving his own arse now that he has been suspended from Towie. That's total bollocks he had no intention of violence. Threatening to knife someone is violence! He loves his son so much that he threatens his mother should she dare to meet someone else what a charmer!

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emmelinelucas · 10/03/2015 17:14

yes - that old chestnut, Joan.
I wish JJ would come on here.

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 17:14

That's interesting Fairy hopefully worked out well for JJ then she will need all the support she can get at the minute I should think :(

NobodyLivesHere · 10/03/2015 17:15

So her baby is around a month old, his son is 14 months, so that means at the very latest she was sleeping with him 12 weeks after the ex had his baby? She's a delight. Hmm
And he's an animal.

Koalafications · 10/03/2015 17:22

Nobody him and the ex (Megan) weren't together when she got pregnant. They had split up before hand but lived together when Teddy was born.

Surely women realise that if he is abuse to another woman he is going to be abusive to them too at some point. It's just a matter of time.

JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 17:50

The gf of ex told me how wonderful he was and said I needed psychiatric evaluation. I later found out she got him psychiatric ally evaluated he was found to have something unusual mentally going on. She managed to get me and the dc psychiatric ally evaluated by them telling lies to court. They used the rare condition we had to cast doubt if it was real. Weirdly the mental illness I was found to have by court psychiatrist was depression. I wonder why. Hmm

fedupbutfine · 10/03/2015 17:52

sadly too many women, koala seem to be able to justify piss poor behaviour towards the ex as being her fault for leaving him/not loving him enough/being a total bitch/any nasty comment you care to add. They then convince themselves that he loves them way more than he did the ex and therefore would never treat them in the same way. There is genuine surprise when it happens to them. You see it all the time on forums like these. Very sad.

JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 17:58

I actually wonder now if the accusation made against me by the exs gf... She got us all assessed and court papers said she got her exs diagnosed with mental illness. She did a degree in social psychology and helped ex hide money. It makes you wonder...

Koalafications · 10/03/2015 18:01

I actually can't get my head around that fedup. I just don't understand that thought process at all.b

Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 18:03

On the day the recording was leaked of his vile mouth Dan's father tweeted " Despite what you may read in some newspapers, my son is more laid back than a Dentist chair and so chilled he sleeps standing up".

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JoanHicksonMIfive · 10/03/2015 18:04

They think they are superior to others . Taking selfies in the mirror and posting online aged over 16 is a give away.

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 19:27

How his father can disregard actual recordings is ridiculous- I know that's his son but he did that in front of his grandson how can you minimise that behaviour?!

Namechanged101 · 10/03/2015 19:32

Urghh just looked at Dan's twitter account is beyond depressing...shite such as 'two sides to every story' 'the truth will come out'
He seems to forget that the words came out of his mouth? He made those threats.

NeedABumChange · 10/03/2015 19:38

This isn't any different than when women threaten to cut a guys balls off is it? It's just angry ex stuff, my friends have all said disgusting things about ex's or to them after a drink. If he was actually violent then surely she wouldn't have had him still living with her after they'd broken up?

I find the whole thing really odd, why would you have a baby with someone when you've just had a baby with someone else and you barely know them? I think this guy has issues, maybe he takes steroids? He is pretty beefy.

Paddleslowly · 10/03/2015 21:16

The police did not take any further action against him and this is wrong. Not a prison sentance but time spent doing some community service would have nipped his disgusting behaviour in the bud. He has made a threat involving a knife how an earth does that not warrant any action not being taken. A caution at least should have been given. It's sad that potentially his kids will know what he has said in future.

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