These families need help and compassion rather than condemation. Making a child feel like an outcast (assuming they have done nothing more than marrying a jihadi) will make them feel they have no option but to stay with ISIS.
YY I heard a radio documentary on rehabilitating child soldiers with The Lord's Resistance Army.
The boys were soldiers and the girls were sex and domestic slaves in the service of Christian fundamentalists. I don't think the LRA has much to do with most Christians' idea of their faith at all, just like I guess IS's view of Islam is not shared by many Muslims. It's a convenient peg.
Unlike these girls, they had mostly been abducted. But because of the terrible things that these children had done, and in some cases had come to believe after brainwashing, no one wanted them back. In fact, they would take bloody revenge on them. So they were trapped.
So some pansy-arsed liberals hit on the idea of making radio broadcasts appealing for them to turn themselves in to the care of a safe charity, in the hope that a young person might hear it and find the courage to break free.
No one from the charity was suggesting that it would be easy, or even possible in all cases to transform these children who had done monstrous things, into law-abiding citizens. They talked about long periods of de-programming in custody to keep the local population safe from them and them safe from the local population.
But at least they had a well-thought-out plan and were trying.
I don't regard it as a waste of money for the police to try to find British minors who've run away from home and are heading into danger. That's what I want from them.
Some posters talked about Rochdale and were pooh-poohed. I think it's the same. The police and other authorities didn't bother to help those girls, partly because they weren't sympathetic characters and once they were in the clutches of their abusers they couldn't get away.
The plan to ban all returnees from dodgy areas with an exception for workers for respected charities won't work.
If I was a jihadi I'd just join the Red Cross or Medecins San Frontieres. Many people have practical skills that charities want as well as a cultural, religious and language background.
I also don't think it's beyond the realms of possibility that these three girls think they can be of some assistance as nurses. I think it's more likely they've gone out as part of twisted romantic and political dream, but when you're 16 that might encompass mopping the fevered brow of a handsome wounded jihadi.