to hate the expression 'as long as baby is healthy i don't mind the gender ?

[mrsfuzzy]

i know it's something people say but it really makes me sad for the little one waiting to born, if there are problems are the parents going to love it any less, are they disappointed because they did not get the 'ideal result'. all children are special, i just feel uncomfortable when i hear it said.
what do others think ?

It's not wanting a 'perfect' baby. It's not wanting your baby to have anything that would make it suffer.

What's wrong with that?

The answer to Do you want a boy or a girl? has to be Yes - and leave it at that.