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AIBU?

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To think "put some fucking clothes on!"

445 replies

PutSomeFuckingClothesOn · 10/01/2015 21:08

or at least wrap a towel round yourself FFS.

I go to the gym five days a week, usually in the morning. Every single day without fail there will be people having a shower after their workout. I don't have a problem with this as the showers are in cubicles rather than out in the open.

My problem is is that after they've finished showering you can be sure they will then strut naked out of the shower over to the lockers without bothering to wrap a towel around themselves. They will then stand naked for a bit sorting their clothes and shit out before getting dressed. It's always the same people too.

AIBU to think they should at least wrap a towel round themselves? And get dressed as quickly as possible?

Nobody wants to see them naked!

I did mention it to reception but they just gave me a look like this Hmm.

OP posts:
DrSeuss · 10/01/2015 21:29

Sorry, tit flashing without presence of a baby should read not normal!

Opopanax · 10/01/2015 21:29

Unless they are more or less dancing up and down yelling 'look at meeeee!', YABU. If they are merely walking naked to a locker in a probably hot single sex changing room, sorting out their stuff and getting dressed, why not just ignore them if it bothers you? It's just someone's body. I actually think the world would be a better place if nakedness wasn't so fetishised.

Only1scoop · 10/01/2015 21:30

Yanbu....

Hate changing room where everyone walks round like Bubbles Devere.

squoosh · 10/01/2015 21:30

'Lets face it though, the only people who strut around naked at the gym/swimming pool are massive posers with huge egos.'

Or they're just people who don't have that very British prudishness about nudity. Good for them

LetticeKnollys · 10/01/2015 21:30

If you can't get your bits out in a changing room, where can you? Changing rooms are the last bastions of public nudity, leave them alone!

CrazyOldBagLady · 10/01/2015 21:30

People in Europe do this all the time. I would do this if I was in a changing room over there. If I was over here I probably wouldn't due to reactions like the OP's. I think we should lighten up a bit over naked bodies really.

Idefix · 10/01/2015 21:31

Eek op, it is just a persons body...don't look...think of something else to take your mind off all the strutting.

BaronessBomburst · 10/01/2015 21:32

Don't ever go to a gym or sauna anywhere in mainland Europe then. Ever.

PrimalLass · 10/01/2015 21:33

The worst gym changing room sight was a woman in the buff with her foot up on the bench and she was shaving her legs. Ewwwww. Use the shower FFS.

skinnyamericano · 10/01/2015 21:33

The bit that would annoy me is the trail of water that would be left from the shower to the bench - you should towel dry in the shower area and then strut naked to the bench

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 10/01/2015 21:34

I don't love it either but YABU to complain. It's a changing room and they can be nude if they want

Methe · 10/01/2015 21:35

LOL at "maybe they can't afford a towel"

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That is such and MN thing to say

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Eltonjohnsflorist · 10/01/2015 21:36

I assumed the not being able to afford the towel was a joke....

squoosh · 10/01/2015 21:39

It was a joke

MyTeethAreChattering · 10/01/2015 21:44

And get dressed as quickly as possible?

I can't believe no-one has pick you up on this. Did you also ask the receptionist to have a word with people who do wear a towel but don't get dressed quickly enough for your liking?

OttiliaVonBCup · 10/01/2015 21:46
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Sparklingbrook · 10/01/2015 21:49

I would hate it, and that's why I wouldn't go to the gym, or if I did I would get straight in the car and go home and shower there probably.

Personally I don't want to see naked strangers, but that's just me.

PacificDogwood · 10/01/2015 21:49

Oh my

Never move to the continent, OP, never.

HellonHeels · 10/01/2015 21:51

The Bikram yoga studio I go to has signs in the (communal) showers asking yogis not to carry out hair removal Grin

Mintyy · 10/01/2015 21:51

What's your usual posting name op? Are you embarrassed to admit that you feel like this?

Sparklingbrook · 10/01/2015 21:52

What's the point of having shower cubicles if everyone is starkers anyway?

Gileswithachainsaw · 10/01/2015 21:53

if I went to gym 5 days awake I might also have a body I'd happily show naked

WestEast · 10/01/2015 21:54

I'm naked in changing rooms without a big ego, and I couldn't give half a fart if someone doesn't like looking at my arse whilst I dry myself for 30 seconds.
I regularly change from civvie clothes to uniform and vice versus with a bunch of women I work with, none of us give a fuck. And I spend up to 13 hours with them. But I don't think any of them are mentally scarred by my size 18 thighs.

PacificDogwood · 10/01/2015 21:57

If we saw more 'normal' naked bodies more often, we'd not be quite so brain-washed about what bodies 'should' look like.

I think your gym is doing you a favour in educating you, OP.

Oh, and for the record YAofcourseBU.

mausmaus · 10/01/2015 21:58

yabu
don't look if you don't want to see.
you should visit a sauna in germany

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