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Whatever happened to the poster

199 replies

GraysAnalogy · 02/01/2015 23:49

Who's friend had a DP in america and she went over there to have her baby and the OP was worried her friends DP and his mum were planning on keeping the baby?

Posting in AIBU because it was in here for a while and a few might remember.

To make this more interesting, post your own 'what happened's to try and get updates!

OP posts:
TooOldForGlitter · 03/01/2015 23:34

I live in hope of reading an update from Marms on her preggerz n peng cousin. Each day that passes without me knowing is a sad one Sad

SezaMcGregor · 03/01/2015 23:46

Has anyone heard from HappyLandSpaceMan lately? I often think of her

SistersOfPercy · 04/01/2015 00:06

I wonder what happened with the lady who's nursery went home leaving her small child locked in.
It was originally thought to be hairy handed but when it appeared in the local news we knew it wasn't. Often wondered if the nursery got a good bollocking over that one.

Blackout234 · 04/01/2015 00:30

There was a young girl on here a few months back, 15 (i think) and pregnant having suffered a life of abuse. Sadly she got flamed a few times and i think she has now left. I do think about her alot though seeing as i was on here around the same time as she was and found out i was pregnant (not much older than her, 19) not long after. she'd be heavily pregnant by now and i hope all is well.

Shakey1500 · 04/01/2015 00:34

What happened to the OP who went on what was supposed to be a romantic holiday with (fairly new I think) partner who was acting an absolute arse on the first night? It may have been to France? Anyone else recall that one?

expatinscotland · 04/01/2015 00:39

Please tell me the lady in the Baby Names thread has decided not to name her son Tyburn.

MerryMo · 04/01/2015 00:47

I recall the thread someone else mentioned a few pages back about the poor woman who was dismissed and investigated at work for using the internet even on her days off. She just dissapeared and no one ever knew how the hearing went. I think she got her Dad and some employment lawyer involved and then she just went quiet! Even now I wonder how that all turned out and it was a fair while ago now.

Another one is the poster who received a letter from her husband (delivered by his best mate) ending their marriage because of her affair. Except she want having an affair. She couldnt fathom why he would think she was and I dont think there were any details in the letter as to what excactly made him think so. The poor woman was totally in the dark. I cannot recall how that one ended.

Also, remember the lady whose hubby wouldnt ever let her in the garage. I think she came onto a thread like this to update - but there was still no answer to what he has in the garage!

GraysAnalogy · 04/01/2015 01:00

sisters I remember that one

I hope all the people mentioned had happy endings. This has reminded me of soooo many. It's amazing how many lives we get an insight into

OP posts:
AyMamita · 04/01/2015 07:55

What happened to the little girl who wanted Snow Glow Elsa for xmas and the parents took it back to the shop as punishment for her acting up a bit when her baby brother was born?

ToffeeCaramel the thread was recently updated by the OP - little girl's parents went through with their mean plan but OP gave her a lot of Frozen stuff.

OuiOuiMadame · 04/01/2015 07:58

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OttiliaVonBCup · 04/01/2015 08:29

I wonder what colour that fence was painted.

RumbelowSale · 04/01/2015 08:52

aymamita thanks so much for giving the link to the update. So pleased to read that the little girl had a good day, despite her parents.

PerpendicularVincenzo · 04/01/2015 09:11

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TonyThePony · 04/01/2015 09:14

The woman whose partner had suddenly left her and then began acting bizarrely, like a complete personality change. It became apparent that it was very likely a delayed brain injury, the op was trying to convince her (ex) partner to get medically investigated and was going to his GP and his parents.

It was a really sad thread, I hope they are both ok.

Wormatthebottomofthegarden · 04/01/2015 09:23

The poster in relationships who found out her DH was having an affair and stayed with him despite him not breaking contact with the OW.
So many times she said I'll leave him if he continues contact and every time she stayed with him, she found sneaky emails and conversations the longer it went on and every time was hoping he would change. It was very sad and very frustrating as it was obvious he was just going to carry on as he never had any consequences. She hasn't been back for a while and I expect is still with him.

Momzilla82 · 04/01/2015 09:34

I always wondered about the guy whose wife was having their first baby, who wasn't on board with his simba lion king moment of introducing the baby to his parents soon after birth. I seem to remember the OPs wife had been physically violent towards him as well. I often wonder how many minutes after birth the baby was introduced to his parents and whether it ended well.

MokunMokun · 04/01/2015 09:58

A lot of these!!

I think the woman whose child was left locked in nursery posted a second thread because she had removed her from nursery but was having trouble because there wasn't another nursery nearby. I might be wrong though.

I wonder about the woman whose son had lost hundreds of pounds worth of uniform. Did it ever get resolved with the school?

Tattiebogle · 04/01/2015 10:20

Wormatthebottomofthegarden the poster your referring to is 'Holdtight' and she's someone I think of on a daily basis.

Every month I either Im her or post a thread on the relationships board asking how she is but its a few months now since she replied to either.

Like you I suspect she's still with her husband and I wish she felt she could still post here and get the support she wants/needs as a woman who's stayed in her marriage, but sadly some of the more vocal and disapproving posters have put the kibosh on that.

Blueandwhitelover · 04/01/2015 10:45

I've lost the thread from the young Mum who has terminal cancer and was posting recently, has it been removed?
Also, would love to hear a resolution about the football coaching in Africa-did he continue to have stupid expectations of how his life should be?
Marmalade's PTFA woman, has she left the PTFA yet?
Tidydancer's Gluezilla-has she started to cringe yet about her pre wedding behaviour?
and finally Sparklyballandtinsel's thread a couple of Xmases ago about her appalling SIL's children behaviour at a restaurant-do they still see them? That was the thread that inspired me to join mumsnet.

hollyisalovelyname · 04/01/2015 10:52

I am so sorry HappyLand committed suicide. She had done so well escaping her abusive partner.
My heart goes out to her two dc's. I wish them happiness.
Life can be a bitch.
The mum who had cancer ( nickname Knitting ?) sadly died.

SezaMcGregor · 05/01/2015 00:21

Oui - thank you for letting me know though I find that so sad. I knew it was going to be hard for her but I'm still so shocked at the news.

ddubsgirl77 · 05/01/2015 00:35

Did the couple whos sil said she couldnt go to tje wedding aboard cos she was pregnant? Did they ever go in the end?

elfycat · 05/01/2015 00:41

Frizzcat was it NameChangeAnon's thread? DH emailing another woman and forgetting he'd left his laptop in the hands of his wife with his email locked in. It was the very end of October and through November.

If so that's me.

We're still together, for a given value of togetherness. Luckily he works away half of the time. It's giving me a series of headaches (and one migraine) staying in any kind of relationship with him. We're arranging some counselling, not relationship stuff but individual 'let's sort out our own fuck-up' kind and then we'll see who and where we are. I give it 50:50 and if he ever runs me down again then he'll be out the door as soon as I realise it's happened.

ToffeeCaramel · 05/01/2015 00:55

Aymamita Thanks for letting me know. Smile

ToffeeCaramel · 05/01/2015 00:56

It's a shame she didn't get the present, but good she seemed to have a happy day, helped by the op