DH stays up a lot later than me.
I go to bed about 11pm (and would prefer to go earlier but he gets grumpy saying he 'wants to spend time with me' so I stay up later)
He goes to bed about 2am - 3am. He's a gamer.
This is fair enough, except he is always moaning he is tired in the mornings which annoys me, because to me if you are tired you go to bed earlier.
The thing that really annoys me, is when he does come to bed he makes NO attempt whatsoever to not wake me up.
His PC is in the loft extension directly above our bedroom. He thunders down the stairs (pissed generally).
He flings the bedroom door wide open, and as we have the landing light on for DS, light streams into the bedroom which wakes me up. He never shuts it either, so I have to tell him to (hissed in fury normally, which then makes him arsey in return)
He flings his clothes off and flops in to bed. He is then asleep before his head hits the pillow
AND he then proceeds to snore and make noises like a dying walrus for the rest of the night (not helped by the drinking)
He knows I am an incredibly light sleeper and I cannot get back to sleep once he has woken me up becuase of his snoring. Last night I was nudging him every 5 minutes to shutthefuckup (nudging may have got progressively harder as the night / morning wore on)
I'll be turning the spare room (currently a box room) into a spare bedroom soon as his DM is coming for Christmas. Once I've got a bed in there, I am thinking either that will become my room and we will have separate bedrooms OR I will say, if it's later than midnight he sleeps in there
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catgirl1976 · 15/11/2014 09:12
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