Literally that. Today is dp's birthday. I bought him cake, cards, wine ... Everything was fine.
I wake up all of a sudden to screaming, shouting and fighting. The only story I can get is ds split lemonade on the carpet and dp went crazy. I can't get a serious account of events off anyone. I wake up to dp being held back by ds1 trying to get at ds2 (13). I run upstairs, wrestle him back, he tells me we're finished and then ex calls saying he wants to pick up 'his' kids as ds2 has called him and "it's not on". I have no fucking clue what has happened. Nobody will tell me other than the kids saying dp kicked off over lemonade on the carpet. I've just had enough, feel like doing myself in.no idea what's happened. I go to sleep with everything fine, wake up everyone hating me