WellNow "Just a musing on the female jurors issue, do you think its in part that by convicting someone they may have to acknowledge that they have been raped?
You see it on threads here, someone asking is this behavior/action a bit off?
Posters come on and gently say not only is it 'off' its rape.
You then get others coming on saying of course its not rape, my husband/boyfriend does that? Are you calling my Nigel a rapist??
That the jurors in non stranger rapes are thinking this way? Thinking that if I convict this man that means that I've been raped, that my Nigel is a rapist. And can't deal with that thought?"
I could see very clearly what you mean by this, I've been having a conversation on Facebook with a friend of a friend who tried to defend Evans by saying she had seen the CCTV footage and comments on his website and doubted his conviction because of it.
There was a bit of back and forth discussion, during which she said "I've been too drunk to consent to sex lots of times but that doesn't make my boyfriend a rapist."
No it doesn't if she was drunk but equally and enthusiastically keen and wanted to have sex as much as he did.
But yes it does make him a rapist if she was so drunk she was unconscious or if she was unwilling, confused and unable to understand what he wanted to do or what she might be agreeing to (if she agreed) and her boyfriend continued regardless. And it especially does if her boyfriend then decided to invite three strangers round to take a turn and film it, which happened to Evans victim.
She also said "well if the woman was too drunk to consent, Evans must have been too drunk to rape her because he'd been drinking too. It's not fair to say she didn't know what she was doing because she was drunk but expect him to know what he was doing when he'd been drinking as well."
I've seen that said a lot by people supporting him.