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To enjoy looking through other people's windows in the evening.

237 replies

LEMmingaround · 15/10/2014 11:13

I do this when i walk to and from my little cleaning job. It makes me feel all warm inside!

Doesn't matter what people are doing, what they have on display etc, its better when they have lamps rather than lights and i love to see families sat with their dinners on their laps or kids playing on the floor in front of the fire. Or single folk sat with their lap-top and Wine or Brew.

I'm not being nosey, it just makes me feel nice

I'm a weirdo aren't i??? Blush

OP posts:
ithoughtofitfirst · 15/10/2014 15:49

something you knew to be a universal truth is turned on its head

Brilliant!

LonnyVonnyWilsonFrickett · 15/10/2014 15:51

Love the big light thread too. We have a double big light. It's never on.

ViviPru · 15/10/2014 15:53

ithought, it honestly tipped my axis a bit, really it did.

ApocalypseNowt · 15/10/2014 15:54

Oooh i love a good nosy! I'm afraid i don't return the favour though. We live in a house where the living room is at the back and it's a quiet street anyway. We are looking to move though...

JellyDiamonds · 15/10/2014 15:55

DadDadDad hadn't thought of that. Interestingly the reason I could see straight in though was because she had the "big light" on!

motherinferior · 15/10/2014 16:00

Agree with PPs about how much more enticing it looks from the outside. I feel this kind of misplaced nostalgia for the days when I yearned for domesticity. Then I get in and it's a cat-infested shambles of books and shoes and musical instruments and the only reason I've been able to look in at all is because no bugger's drawn the curtains.

ViviPru · 15/10/2014 16:00

Its fraught with peril, Jelly

Bowlersarm · 15/10/2014 16:07

Love it too.

But when I am outside my own house and look in when it has all the lights on and everyone is inside, I get a really strange unsettled feeling. I have no idea why.

BlueberryWafer · 15/10/2014 16:11

It's even better near Christmas when they have their tree lights on!

Pyjamaface · 15/10/2014 16:14

I don't because I hate people looking in my windows all sodding day. Dog walkers, walking groups, horse riders all having a good old gawp all day long.

Hate hate hate it. I just want to sit and watch tv without being snouted at

WhispersOfWickedness · 15/10/2014 16:14

I loved doing this until I did it through the window of a house directly next to the pavement and made eye contact with the person who was looking out of the window at the same time BlushBlush
I still do it but am a bit more discreet now ??

WookieCookiee · 15/10/2014 16:18

our house looks like the Mother Ship from outside with all the bloody lights everyone leaves on.
I love looking through windows, on my ML I regularly came back from my walks with a crick in my neck.
Eve did you know that nets are totally see through when it's dark & you have lights on?

VoyagerII · 15/10/2014 16:23

Sorry pyjamaface! I love it too. I just want to know what colour people have painted their walls, what sofa they have, does that flat look cosy or grim, could I imagine that being my house? I always go upstairs on the bus to do this and when I'm walking along the street too.

A friend once rented a ground-floor flat on a busy street and when he left he said he was so happy to be rid of it because of all the people looking in at his windows. I was like this Blush

squoosh · 15/10/2014 16:24

You never know who's peering in your window.

To enjoy looking through other people's windows in the evening.
MsRinky · 15/10/2014 16:30

Ah, someone has already posted Windows in the West. I love that picture - one of my student houses was directly opposite that very block on the road on the right in that picture. I really miss walking or riding the bus though the west end at dusk as all the lights come on.

squoosh · 15/10/2014 16:33

I live in the West End MsRinky, it really is the best spot for snooping in windows.

iwishiwasacat · 15/10/2014 16:39

I'm tempted to put my life size Pennywise cardboard cutout in the window, ready for all the window peeping dog walkers this evening! Grin

DMCWelshCakes · 15/10/2014 16:50

If you've got the curtains open and the light on, you're inviting me to critique your choice of sofa. End of.

Grin
EveDallasRetd · 15/10/2014 16:51

I do Wookie, we close the curtains as soon as the lamps go on Smile

amicissimma · 15/10/2014 17:15

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LEMmingaround · 15/10/2014 17:50

Whst is "the big light"?

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ssd · 15/10/2014 18:02

the big light is the light in the centre of the ceiling in the living room

op, I agree, I'm nosey too Grin

Rainbunny · 15/10/2014 18:15

My friend and I love looking love looking through people's windows when we go on our evening runs in the wintertime, especially at Christmastime! We have been known to choose expensive parts of our city to run just because we like looking at the really posh homes that we will likely never live in.

Kiffykaffycoffee · 15/10/2014 18:22

YANBU me too. This is one of the greatest pleasures of the dark winter months. It's free, and has negative calories. Grin

Jill2015 · 15/10/2014 18:25

I'd glance in passing, while walking, or on a bus. I wouldn't look enough to see wall colours or anything like that.