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AIBU to be peed off that he is late??

105 replies

tallulah2014 · 30/09/2014 20:36

Hi, not sure if I am justified in this or not.

Been seeing a guy for about a week and a half.

He has been late most times he's been due to come over... only between 10 and 30 mins late, but still.

Take tonight for example; this afternoon he suggested 7pm as his arrival time. I agreed, got all the housework etc sorted for 6.45 and at 7.20pm I get a text saying "be at yours at 8".

I replied okay, again, and he still isn't here. Shot him a text just now asking if he is lost but no reply yet.

Am I being unreasonable, given we are only 'seeing each other'?

OP posts:
SmatteringOfPatois · 01/10/2014 21:14

"trust me, he was let in this time...."

trust you, no, I would not trust you and your judgement. you have let this stranger and let's face it, less than reliable strange of 10 days into your home with your children.

"trust me"...no, in no way would I trust you and your judgement.

BlackDaisies · 01/10/2014 21:31

I agree. He's disrespectful of you. Walking in 2 hours late and telling you to chill? After 2 weeks? You deserve better than this.

borisgudanov · 02/10/2014 02:04

10 minutes - no problem
30 minutes - apology required
60 minutes - serious bollocking
120 minutes - Fuck Off You Twat

DeMaz · 02/10/2014 09:27

OP, what is he doing in your house with your children after two weeks??

FunkyBoldRibena · 02/10/2014 10:36

OP - you let him in then he left right? You didn't just go to bed and leave him in your house???

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