Hi,
First time poster.
Well i'm a guy, and I never thought I would see the day that I would be posting on Mumsnet tbh.
Anyway I watched IDS the other day - and felt compelled to "Google", "Pre-Paid benifits cards"... Came across this active thread and have been hooked - it's pretty good in all truth.
Here is where I am in my opinion of it all. I am 36 and unemployed. I claim ESA (employment & support allowance)... I have been in and out of work since i was approximately 21. I have been a civil servant (Inland Revenue), Engineer, and various different types of lower paid jobs over the years.
Thing is - in that time frame i have suffered serious bouts of depression which comes and goes. I have been out of work longer than in work in total since i was 21 if i'm honest - because i wasn't mentally (and in turn) physically able to work every day. Which doesn't bode well for long term employment/career and putting money away for a rainy day (retirement) or helping my five year old son through university if he should ever wish to go down that route. I come from a "largish" family who all own their own homes, cars etc etc - and whom have never been a day out of work their entire lives except the to be expected odd sick day off work here and there. I'm what you could probably call the "blacksheep" in the family - lol. I don't own my own home, cars, go on holidays whenever i feel like it, or any of that "usual" stuff.
Anyway i have the feeling (as many others do on here) that dictating to the people who have proven drink or drug, or gambling issues. Which is only basically a glorified US food stamp - is only the very beginning.
Why should i have any dignity taken away because of the politically correct nonsense of a few people who feel the need to be seen to be doing "the right thing" for the sake of some people's up views on how human beings who don't happen to work should be treated.
The Tories were always dangerous - right back to Thatcher (and before that) and the miners. And yet again with this picking on the 'needy' in general - because of a few bad apples - as seen in recent television documentaries etc etc, etc.
UKIP, Labour, whoever.
But the Tories need to G2F - period.