Our neice, 16 years old, is also voting No. Her cousins have all flown the nest and, I don't know the reasons for it, but they have all gone to England or Wales. All of them lived in the big cities in middle class homes in Scotland and jobs weren't an issue. One transferred from his Glasgow based job to London with the same company and the other was offered a job in Dundee and went for a job in London instead (much to the disgust of my SIL in Edinburgh who is staunch Yes). One nephew eent to Eales to do his postgraduate degree and stayed.
I believe our neice is planning to do the same when she gets through college or university. Much as we'd welcome her - I am English living in England with Scottish hubby - I just wonder why no one has ever asked why they are all coming South (or West in the case of the nephew in Wales). It doesn't make sense to me but I guess young people like to move away at some point.
Anyway with a view to the initial question, no I don't think we in rUK should have got a vote on independence. If we voted yes and the Scots voted No, what would the plan be? All grab a spade, dig a trench and hire some tugboats to tow them nearer Shetland?
And if we said Yes and Scots No what happens then? Sanctions to make them stay? Send in the troops? And have a bloody fuming neighbour who REALLY feels under the cosh?
What I do think though is that MPs have seriously misread (if they have taken any thought on it at all) the strength of feeling in rUK re the pound, devo Max etc. As I have said on another post, the MPs will only stay MPs if we vote for them. We vote in May. Right in the middle of any independence negotiations. So we can put our view across if we aren't happy with what is or has been put on the table whether the vote goes Yes or No on Thursday. The rUK can significantly change what is on offer to AS in return for something from the Scots (it does work both ways. AS wants the pound. We want some oil revenues, for example)...
MPs can only vote on changes or negotiations if they have a seat. And it is my cross and that of my nephew in Wales and my friend in Belfast that will decide who sits around the table come next May. So we will have a say albeit a bit later down the line.
Although it will be hard on the rUK if Scotland goes I wish them well if they vote to leave and I will still be visiting (even without SIL living in the country). If they stay I will be just as pleased for them. But I will not beg a country to stay, neither will I be telling them to fuck off! The people of Scotland are clever, proud and intelligent people for the most part. As are those in England, Wales and N Ireland and none of us need to be patronised, ignored or shouted down.
Finally, Pinkrose, the Scottish, Welsh and Northern Irish Parliament/Assemblies get their cash under the Barnett formula. That was put in place in the 70s and I believe the current amount is 11% of budget for the Scots to do as they will in certain budgets like NHS. Think of it like a household budget. You and DH get £50 own cash out of your joint income. He decides to buy a pair of shoes and you get your hair done. Same money, different priorities.