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To love this buggy!

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curiousgeorgie · 23/08/2014 09:34

DH got a delivery this morning....

My DD2 is a nightmare. She screams and cries if I put her in the pram, she's impossible to pacify in a restaurant or shopping etc...

So DH says this is the solution.

She's been quiet for 15 minutes!!!! Shock

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curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 09:39

Koala - but they may not work. I'm pretty confident this is going to work for a good 15 - 20 minutes in one go! Show me a nursery rhyme or buggy you that can do that just as well and I'll be converted.

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curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 09:44

Buggy toy*

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ziggiestardust · 25/08/2014 10:02

Never said you couldn't 'distract' a baby without a screen. But kind of hard when you're undertaking the activities the OP mentioned, no?

And also, I was referring to the poster who inferred you could get a 14 month old to behave. I'm still all ears for that.

I'm so happy for everyone who has babies who are settled with a jiggle and a nursery rhyme. How nice for you. How about compassion for those who don't, or is that just too much to ask?

The self righteous indignation on here is unbelievable.

ArsenicyOldFace · 25/08/2014 10:40

And also, I was referring to the poster who inferred you could get a 14 month old to behave. I'm still all ears for that.

Weirder and weirder. Is it now widely accepted that 'getting a 14 month old to behave' is completely impossible?

What definition of 'behave' are you all using? Confused

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 13:06

For some 14 month olds, yes, it's very difficult.

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ArsenicyOldFace · 25/08/2014 13:11

Maybe it is just the hyperbolic mode of expression that is causing some confusion and Hmm

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 13:16

Are you inferring that I've exaggerated how hard it is? Or are you referring to your emoticon distaste? It's hard to tell.

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Andcake · 25/08/2014 13:33

Must admit that I hate the idea of this buggy and my 2 year old does gave a bit of screen time no more than 30 mins a day and most days he has zero or it's adult supervised so we can talk about what is going on. He occasionally has more if on long car journeys but we push it for as long as possible say 2 hours in before resorting to ipad.

Must admit wouldn't dream of just sitting in a restaurant with an awake 16 month old just sitting waiting for me in the buggy. I would go when they were napping or make it at one of their meal times so they were in high chair with food then toys.
Op it's just too young - if you've tried everything gave you taken her to Hv or drs. If she screams the whole time have you investigated causes. My ds only screamed in his buggy when he was bored stopped as soon as we put him outward facing rather than parent facing - I was clearly boring. I think it was also about that age ds enjoyed having things pointed out to him or pointing them out to me.
What are you going to show on the ipad?

Andcake · 25/08/2014 13:36

Sorry meant 14 month old.
Also if I saw some one with this I would think an or lazy mother.
Agree 14 months don't behave but you just have to work round them a bit and help them learn. What is she like at home!

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 13:42

She's quite entertained by Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Sofia, so I'll put a couple of episodes of that on the iPad and she'll watch those.

Depending on what time we're in a restaurant, she'll sit in a high chair at the table, and eat and play with toys etc. But we're going with a group of family and friends and we like to eat out and have some drinks and take our time, so once she's totally finished eating, I'll put her in the buggy, put the iPad on, give her her milk and she'll hopefully fall asleep without us having to leave and without screaming the place down. If we were at home it would be different, but it's as much about not ruining others nights out as it is of not ruining our own.

If we're in a long queue and she's unhappy, I'll probably use it. But there are a few of us and it's more acceptable to make noise in a queue (and in most you can't take buggies) so perhaps not.

I don't need to take her anywhere about her unhappiness. It began as reflux, and then was a milk allergy, and is now a dairy intolerance and she is just very fractious. (I've started several threads about her in times of desperation).

Basically, if I think we / she will benefit from sitting in there and falling asleep to a DVD, I'll use it.

(Of course, Saturdays 20 minutes may well have been a fluke and she might rebel... And of course we'll cope.)

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curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 13:45

And obviously at home it's different. If she's particularly upset I can put her in her cot, sing to her, her loads of toys out etc, but then there's no one to disturb at home and I'm not trying to get round a theme park or eat dinner in a restaurant.

We do eat out fairly often, and try to go when she'll be asleep in her carseat.

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livinginhope87 · 25/08/2014 15:27

Quick question, how do you think your older child will react to her sister being able to watch the iPad wherever she wants on holiday while sitting down in the long queues etc?

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 15:31

I'm sure my 4 year old will be pretty happy seeing as she'll be in Disney World.

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livinginhope87 · 25/08/2014 15:41

True but queues are boring wherever you are. I would not be surprised if you get a bit of competition for the pram! Plus I think if you use that as an explanation then your younger daughter should be entertained by being at Disney. To be honest, I think the iPad part of the pram as a concept for keeping the children quiet is genius but a really sad step for us as parents and will store up issues for when you get home.

OwlinaTree · 25/08/2014 15:46

I've only read to end of page 3, so forgive me if this has been discussed, but does it come with earphones for the baby, or do you use it with no sound?

Andcake · 25/08/2014 15:53

All I can say is that maybe you should have saved Disney for when they could both enjoy but I'm sure the other parents at Disney won't judge.
There are health and developmental reasons why under 2s aren't meant to use screens can't link on phone Hmm
Also hoping I haven't fallen for a mn troll Disney and iPad but sure I've seen some other posts from you

HauteChocolate · 25/08/2014 16:10

Haven't read the full thread, but have you tried a baby carrier or sling? I had a "spirited" child who was only calm when held, and having that carrier saved my sanity (a bit).

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 16:16

We use it with no sound, there's no way she'd keep earphones in!

September / October is a pretty quiet time to go so I'm thinking the queues will be minimal for most things. My 4 year old is an absolute angel, she'll be fine, she's been to Disney a couple of times and a lots of uk theme parks at younger ages and had always been great.

Oh, and I'm not a troll. Thanks for asking Wink

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curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 16:19

Yeah, I tried a sling when she was younger, and then an ergo carrier a few months ago and she really protests, plus I have a bad back so I don't really like it either to be honest.

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OwlinaTree · 25/08/2014 16:40

Well yanbu if you use it with no sound! After 5 hours on an Italian train listening to Disney in Italian courtesy of a small child I get more annoyed at listening to iPads than children I think!

NeedsAsockamnesty · 25/08/2014 17:11

I have the pretty much identical version of this but without the transparent pocket the zeta vooom, the bit you pull down is also a very handy sun shade that's in addition to the normal hood. It's a good buggy as far as unberella fold buggys go.

As to the rest of it meh the type of parent who will leave a child strapped in in front of the screen for ages is probably also the type who would leave then strapped into any buggy all day everyday anyway.

But I've found this thread a brilliant distraction from my tedious day

curiousgeorgie · 25/08/2014 18:26

It is very shady. I wanted a bee for the huge hood but this hood is massive and it has zippable side panels for extra shade if needed.

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HauteChocolate · 26/08/2014 00:17

Best of luck to you, sounds like you've tried everything!

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