to be proud my dh said something to dsis

[Happypenguin2014]

We've all been on holiday, last day today. Been lovely apart from dsis treating us like children. Not allowed a key to the caravan, not allowed out on or own for the day without her and dn.

Questioning every time we spend money etc. We've spent the week on the campsite and done nothing we wanted too.

So before we left dh said he was taking DC to spend last 2ps, and she kicked off. So dh said "sorryi forgot this was only dsis holiday"

She's told him to fuck off and to never speak to her again.!

Now had a three hour drive with them not talking at all. Dh is refusihgnto say sorry :(

Cut the bitch off and protect your df from her!

Time for you to grow up now OP. This is your Dsis we are talking about -she is not your DM...
She is not the only family you have-your DH and DC's are your family and you are letting them down by letting her treat you all in this way. What kind of holiday was that for them.
Defriend her on FB and stand up for your DH. He deserves a medal for puting up and pandering to her.

What Zucker said. Tell her to fuck off.

Delete post off your wall and pm her saying that until she can respect you and your family she can stay away. And mean it. Otherwise this will never end. She is being massively unreasonable but you're letting her behave like this by saying 'how high?' whenever she says 'jump'. Until you put your foot down she will continue to do so.

OP I can imagine that a lot of the advice above is difficult to read and might seem absolutely impossible to apply to your situation. However, I think you need to take a message from the strong reactions here. Please think about distancing yourself from this woman and secondly, sending a strong message to your husband and children that they come first.

You said yourself that she has a hold over you. This relationship isn't healthy. You need to take a next step.

Yeah, what everyone else said. You need to grow up and take some responsibility for this relationship. It sounds deeply unhealthy and it seems unlikely she'll change, there's no incentive to at the moment. Withdraw for God's sake!

She only behaves like this because you let her.

I agree with everyone else.

And does she have POA for your dad? If not why is she looking at his bank statements?