Victrix, WTAF?
What you are saying is, well that's all very well and mighty fine, the priest didn't abuse any of the boys, but what if he abused one boy at a later date? Never mind the facts.
[For those wondering about private RC schools in the US, they are parish run and are not normally much different in student body income or socio economic class from the public schools in the same area. They are not there to promote or maintain differentiation of one social class from another.]
Downamongtherednecks:
The line was perfectly appropriately decided by the Priest who runs your school.
He brought the boys to the bathroom in groups and showed them exactly what he was talking about, which is an unimpeachable pedagogical method of delivering an important lesson.
Your DS is in a RC school and RC values are being taught. One of the values is respect. There is little point in thinking respect is some dry matter like trade among the early American colonies, with no practical everyday application. Respect is peeing into the goddamn toilet or urinal and not beside it or all over it or down the wall behind it or onto the floor in its vicinity, and then walking away and leaving it for someone who could not ever be paid enough to clean it up.
And 'better than most' is no reason to clap yourself on the back or post a 
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If I heard something like that about DS I would be fucking horrified, and ashamed of both him and myself.
Your cleaner was being polite and tactful, and if she cleans for any other homes and someone asks the same question about their DS, she will say the same thing to everyone else who asks.
Maybe if you cleaned your own bathroom you wouldn't think this was a matter.
Maybe if you gave your DS the job of cleaning up his own urine he would learn to pee straight.