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about kids having tantrums in the garden

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 17:47

bloody take them inside.

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JadedAngel · 13/07/2014 18:24

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:28

i am not po faced
I am just thinking shut up screechy kid.

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:28

i dont even know whither it cometh.
its just loud

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IsItMeOr · 13/07/2014 18:31

I thought the appropriate reaction was just to be relieved it wasn't your child (this time)?

CrohnicallyExhausted · 13/07/2014 18:31

Let's face it, I'm in a terrace with walls so thin I can hear next door weeing. Yes, really. Moving my child inside for tantrumming is going to be no less annoying!

GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:32

i think that is it. I am long past this stage

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WireCat · 13/07/2014 18:33

Tbh OP, I wouldn't want neighbourly relations with you. You sound like a judgy cah! Grin

GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:35

i am. yes I am.

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Meglet · 13/07/2014 18:36

We can still hear tantrums in the house. I'd rather hear tantrums outside TBH. They're all at it some days, doesn't bother me.

I can hear my neighbours taps running if my house is quiet, there's no way of hiding a tantrum.

GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:37

this was my best ever card, speaking as a po faced judgy cah, and all

about kids having tantrums in the garden
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kslatts · 13/07/2014 18:38

YABU and a bit ridiculous.

GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:39

i am a po faced ridiculous judgy cah

looks downward

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BeatriceBean · 13/07/2014 18:40

Ha - just looked at the time. Double checked. Yup that could have been my kids. Even better we have a green area in front of the house and one had a strop there while we took photos of the other one.

BeatriceBean · 13/07/2014 18:40

Was it me? :D

CrohnicallyExhausted · 13/07/2014 18:41

meglet are you my next door neighbour?

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:45

i am a po faced ridiculous judgy cah who jogs.

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:45

zzz

So if i blasted out screamy rock every hour or so, you wouldnt mind? Grin

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Branleuse · 13/07/2014 18:48

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:49

i am to fuck off or jog off ? Hmm

i am confused.
the mother was employing a counting method, it didnt work,

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dawndonnaagain · 13/07/2014 18:49

Don't be so silly Gretchen you are in control of screamy rock. You have a volume control and whilst it may surprise you to know this, children don't. My children are autistic. I'm so fucking glad I don't live next to you but next to someone who understands and who, when they were younger would help, just as I do with hers now.

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GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:51

If it were someone i KNEW, hmm that would be different.
It just a noise from yonder as I said already.

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BuilderMammy · 13/07/2014 18:51

It's bad enough dealing with a tantrum without having to worry that the neighbours are judging you over the fence.

If you can't cope with normal family noise, go and live in the middle of a big empty field somewhere.

Otherwise, have some compassion.

GretchenWiener · 13/07/2014 18:51

oh SOME music is. maybe even worse.
this was a child SCREAMING in fury.
and the mother rationalising. Ineffectively.

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