AIBU that im going to lose him

[Ludoole]

My lovely fella is very anaemic, has abdomen and pelvic pain, and is losing weight at a very fast rate.
He is diabetic and has an auto immune illness. They are currently under control but these new symptoms are frightening....
We are currently waiting on test results but im so afraid im going to lose him soon.

Wonderful update

Congratulations on your engagement

Massive thanks for all the support lovely fella and I have recieved
Special thanks to Luis suarez's teeth

My DH who had a very bad case of ulcerative colitis(which will never fully go away but has gone from 80% inflammation to less than 5%) and also a low white blood cell condition (which meant he used to physically deteriorate rapidly to the point of requiring hospitalization if he got a flu and is still advised to present himself to ER if he gets a temp over 38) has made tremendous health gains by adhering to The Specific Carbohydrate Diet as outlined by Elaine Gottschall. It's tough to follow but I can vouch for it working at least with the digestive conditions. Best wishes

Great update, OP!

Special thanks to Luis suarez's teeth

And, there's a hilarious sentence I never thought I'd be reading...!

Hope today is even better for you both and he starts to recover from the op.

So pleased he came through the operation ok. He sounds like a proper fighter as well as a proper chap

Hoping he continues to improve and I'm in awe of your strength Lud

Nalia Mr Suarez may not be so amused

Great news Lud.

And so lovely that he wants to spend the rest of his life married to you!

That's brilliant news! Glad to hear he's doing so well!

Oh Lud that's wonderful news darling

Hope you managed to get even a little sleep, sending huge hugs x

So glad he pulled through.
Lovely update.

Happy and sad at the same time for you, Lud. Wishing you both every possible good thing.

I've just read this thread with tears in my eyes - both sad and happy - and wish you both peace, the best health you can hope for and happiness. I will also be praying for you x

Very pleased to see your update. Hope he makes a quick recovery from the op.

Big hugs, keep posting x

Just seen this thread and have a mixture of emotions.

Congratulations on your engagement and I hope your lovely fiancé continues to grow in strength to fight this evil evil illness.

Sending love and light to you and yours x

Just a bump and a "still here" thingy

He's probably having his open wound closed tomorrow then hopefully he will be home soon.
Found out he had been resuscitated during original op and they asked him today if he wanted a DNR put on his notes...Bless him but he said they had better bloody at least try cause he hadnt gone through all this for nothing.

Sounds like he's a fighter :) Hope he's home with you soon x

Hope he's back home with you soon x

Sending best wishes, hugs & prayers

Wound not being closed til mid week now .
He's gutted about it and his mood hit rock bottom. He's so frustrated at lying in bed, he just wants to walk about.
I was able to talk him out of the low mood he was in but I do think the longer he's in there, the more he will sink lower.
He has been through so much already.

Oh no. Why the delay? I'm so very sorry for all you're both going through. I'm thinking of you both and wishing and hoping for the best.

ludoole. Thinking of you xx

Congratulations on your engagement! Hope and prayers heading your way, and wishing him home again soon.

It must be so awful for both of you. Is he going to have any further treatment? Chemo? Radiotherapy? If so they will probably want the wound to be well- healed before they start it so won't take any risks at all.

Try and keep your spirits up. We are all wishing you better days.

Hope you have family support too.