to hate mother and baby groups?

[Torfhinn]

I'm a first time mother with a beautiful 9 week old son. I have lost a very active and busy life and hate being stuck at home. I have been trying to 'put myself out there' to make some mum friends by going to different groups and meet-ups. So far I have found that I have superficial chats with some mums, have nothing in common with most except for babies (how long can we talk about babies for...?), they already have a groups of mum friends and are a bit clique-y, or are just plain unfriendly. I really can't be bothered to keep charming people in order to make friends, but if I don't I risk being very lonely. Should I put more effort in or give up and be content to hang out with my son and do stuff on our own?

I go for my daughter, as I think it's good for her to socialise with other babies

yep thats why I go too.

I've had a second baby and I still hate them since I moved to London and tried these groups I've found them unfriendly the women are clicky and lovey and all live in big houses eat organic and go on 3 holidays a yr