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AIBU?

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to just remove the bloody bolt?

299 replies

Stinkle · 25/06/2014 11:23

Sorry, this is petty and quite long, but the situation has descended into war over a bloody gate and I'm bloody fed up with it

I live in a little housing estate which is situated on the edge of a village, to one side of us is another housing estate, the other open fields. All bar 2 houses are owned by our landlord, he also owns the road, our access track, etc, etc.

In the corner of our house is a gate which leads into the housing estate behind us along a footpath. It's got one of those Chubb locks on it but we are all allowed to use it and have all been given keys

This gate is the only access we have by foot into the village. The track out of our estate when you're driving is about 4 miles round along narrow, windy, country lanes to the village, school, shop, etc. all has been fine and we've all been living here, sharing the gate and going about our business happily for years

About 2 months ago a new neighbour moved in and has complained endlessly about the gate and there have been a few disputes about it.

About a month ago the new neighbour added a slidey bolt to the gate and every time someone went out through the gate, he'd slide across the bolt, meaning you couldn't get back in. This wasn't terrible if someone was around to come and open the bolt, but several times we've all been stuck the other side of the gate.

More disputes about this bloody gate ensued and the Landlord got involved. Landlord removed the bolt and warned the neighbour.

So, this morning I go to use the gate to take DD to school, to find the bloody bolt is back and neighbour has now added a padlock

WIBU/illegal to remove the bolt and shove it up the neighbour's arse ?

OP posts:
Minnieisthedevilmouse · 25/06/2014 17:11

I'd organise a neighbour thing to discuss him. Then invite him for a bit later. See if he's got the balls to turn up. Commiserations op. I'd be very upset about it all.

PopcornFrenzy · 25/06/2014 17:13

shamelessly marking place for Gate-Gate...your neighbour sounds utterly bonkers, he's probably one of these cantankerous old buggers who hates everyone and everything Grin

WhereTheWildlingsAre · 25/06/2014 17:19

How did it go op??

rembrandtsrockchick · 25/06/2014 17:20

Ah the deep, deep joy of batty neighbours. I remember it well.

ebwy · 25/06/2014 17:28

Hope he gets told to stop being so petty and idiotic

poorbuthappy · 25/06/2014 17:39

Shamelessly marking place and laughing at GateGate.

BelleateSebastian · 25/06/2014 17:40

I don't wish drama on you ... but I do love a good neighbourly dispute that doesn't involve me! :)

KatieKaye · 25/06/2014 17:41

Well done OP and LL!

Will NN have the brass neck to ask for his bolt back?

MonstrousPippin · 25/06/2014 17:42

Does NN even have any evidence that his fear of random people using the gate is valid? Surely the existing lock is enough to prevent random people using it since long before he moved in? Considering there's already a lock, it's a poor excuse. The real reason must be that he's pissed off with his neighbours (you guys) using it for some unfathomable reason! The landlord needs to find out what his actual problem is.

AnyoneForTennis · 25/06/2014 17:44

This is funny, coincided with DD Instagram pic of her on the lock love bridge in Paris..... A bridge covered in padlocks

londonrach · 25/06/2014 17:47

Anyone didn't that bridge start to fall recently due to weight of padlocks

TheHouseatWhoCorner · 25/06/2014 17:51

I really like the sound of your LL.

Goldmandra · 25/06/2014 17:53

Anyone didn't that bridge start to fall recently due to weight of padlocks

No but one of the railings did collapse so they were considering removing them all.

Realitybitesyourbum · 25/06/2014 17:54

Gate gate , love it!

AnyoneForTennis · 25/06/2014 17:56

No more locks are allowed on it apparently.

londonrach · 25/06/2014 17:57

Gold health and safety re removed railings.....

PeanutButterAndMarmite · 25/06/2014 18:01

Totally marking my place to find out the Gate-gate outcome!

whathaveiforgottentoday · 25/06/2014 18:04

Good on you and good luck in getting it all resolved

IDontDoIroning · 25/06/2014 18:05

If the ll has given keys to authorised residents how can the nn justify the bolt on the basis of randoms using the gate as randoms won't have a key only authorised residents therefore no need for a bolt.
Circular logic but it makes sense to me.
If some randoms have got an unauthorised copy of the key then all landlord needs to do is change the lock and give all authorised residents new key rinse and repeat and no need for bolts.

ThatVikRinA22 · 25/06/2014 18:07

did someone suggest replacing the padlock with your own and giving everyone a key?

or was i imagining it.....if not.....Grin

maybe if LL charges him for removal enough times he will get the message.....
id send a bill for your services today.

mateysmum · 25/06/2014 18:08

This thread has the potential to match the Isle of White penguin bollard classic.

Marks place. Sits back with burgers ready for OP's communal BBQ

ToAvoidConversation · 25/06/2014 18:09

Loving gategate.

This could be just as gripping as the penguin bollards thread!

foolishpeach · 25/06/2014 18:09
MrsTerryPratchett · 25/06/2014 18:17

How I imagine the OP. Those are all padlocks, BTW. Grin

MehsMum · 25/06/2014 18:25

Another one amused by Gategate.
Good luck, OP.