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To think Lady Gaga is disgusting (potential trigger warning)

42 replies

Whitershadeofpale · 20/06/2014 07:59

And glorifying rape?

She's never really been my cup of tea but when she first the scene I thought that she seemed less like a pop star packaged for male consumption than other celebrities. However, as time's gone on and her career has wained she appears to be pandering to any vile fantasies to try and cling to fame.

Her latest video, that was pulled, has been leaked. In it she is seen in a scene which seems to imply that she is about to be raped by R Kelly (The R Kelly with numerous allegations of child rape against him). This delightful scene is shot by Terry Richardson, another alleged sexual predator.

Even if these 2 we're not involved in the video it appears absolutely vile to me and does appear to glorify and even celebrate rape and rapists. His have we got to a stage where anyone would even think this was an acceptable video to make?

jezebel.com/lady-gaga-and-r-kellys-scrapped-video-was-literally-an-1593101999

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ReadyisKnitting · 20/06/2014 08:07

Most of her songs lyrics make me feel uncomfortable. For me they describe aspects of an abusive relationship. I don't like my children listening to her, and managed to persuade my local radio station to remove one of her songs from their play list for the week they were supporting and promoting women's aid.

MaloryArcher · 20/06/2014 08:12

YANBU.

I used to be a huge Gaga fan and still think she is massively talented. But since her collaboration with R. Kelly and Terry Richardson I cant help but conclude that she's a bit of an idiot and have gone right off her.

I'm also not comfortable letting DD listen to any of the songs from ArtPop. It just seems unnecessarily sexualised. She's not someone I want my daughter idolising.

Needasilverlining · 20/06/2014 08:14

I just saw the news story. Yanbu, why not get Gary Glitter to duet and complete the set?

She's crossed the line into pointless meejahordom imo.Shock tactics but nothing interesting to say.

DogCalledRudis · 20/06/2014 08:15

She is truly awful. And my DH likes her...

GoringBit · 20/06/2014 08:17

I'm really not a prude, but watching her writhe around on X Factor singing something like 'do what you want with my body' made me really uncomfortable. Her desperation to be noticed is grim.

Pennastucky · 20/06/2014 08:19

When I look at her I see the most extreme form of narcissism. I never bought all the 'artistic exploration' guff she spouts. She is just another marketing man's vision.

R Kelly is a vile human being. The transcripts from the court proceedings against him (for sexual molestation of underage girls) are widely available on the internet and make horrific reading. He got off. So he is 'innocent'. But in my eyes, he is a dangerous predator.

sj73 · 20/06/2014 08:41

She's trying to take a leaf out of madonna's book then take it a step further. Except her and Madge are miles apart as Madge has always been totally in control.

How how how has R Kelly got away with it??

sj73 · 20/06/2014 08:42

Penna: I also read those transcripts. They were horrifying. I hadn't realised the extent of his crimes.

sj73 · 20/06/2014 08:43

Penna: but there was video evidence against him of him doing something vile to an underage girl? (Won't say it) yet he's still been forgiven.

AdamLambsbreath · 20/06/2014 08:46

Eeeeurgh. I just read the article you posted. I cannot believe the scenes they mention from the video.

It's really worrying that there's so much of this poisonous rubbish around. So, so disappointing that it's still being perpetrated.

Whitershadeofpale · 20/06/2014 08:49

I totally agree about R Kelly, he is imo a dangerous predator and stunts like this just seem to reaffirm that he is above the law. Its almost like he's laughing at the fact he's allowed to be free to continue to abuse.

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Whitershadeofpale · 20/06/2014 08:50

The video is avaliable if you google but I didn't really feel confortable linking to it.

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mindthegap79 · 20/06/2014 08:55

YANBU - totally disgusting.

Mrsjayy · 20/06/2014 08:56

Yanbu she is desperate and this just shows how desperate she is , that do what you want eith my body song is meant to be some sort of statement about the paparazzi its just vile you can do what you want with my dbody but leave my mind alone pfft she said it was empowering to women

BigBlockSingsong · 20/06/2014 09:17

how many 'kids' is he alleged to have abused? I though it was one teen girl who he took to be at least 16?

Mrsjayy · 20/06/2014 09:19

He was married to an underage girl at one point she might have been his cousin allegedly

Mrsjayy · 20/06/2014 09:21

She wasnt related she was a singer

pissedglitter · 20/06/2014 09:24

I quite liked her in the beginning
But this is a massive step too far

Diane31 · 20/06/2014 09:26

I love listening to the latest chart hits when in the car with my young teen/preteen and a lot of the time words go over my head if the tune is catchy. However, I haven't see the video to this but the words "Do what you want with my body" do stand out and really make me feel uncomfortable when listening with the kids. Just wrong.

BigBlockSingsong · 20/06/2014 09:34

Aaliyah? she was singer, why did her parents allow her to get married underage though? seems odd,

Just read an interview about him , what a monster, it really got swept under the carpet didn't it?

Minnieisthedevilmouse · 20/06/2014 09:37

She claims the song is actually about the media. Ie photograph me, do what you want with my body, my image, but you cannot have my mind/soul.

It might be. Not for me to say. It is difficult to get that though from an initial listen. I thought it was awful the first time I heard it. I too took it 'wrong'. I'm very uncomfortable by how close the lyrics are to being confused.

R Kelly is vile. Can't say more there!

Branleuse · 20/06/2014 09:40

all the soft porn videos are getting really ott now

Whitershadeofpale · 20/06/2014 09:42

I think the song being about the media kind of works just on it's own but the video is clearly linking it with rape. Therefore she's either lying about the lyrics meaning or trivializing rape and saying there experience with the paparazzi is comparable. Both are despicable in my view.

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FlamingGalar · 20/06/2014 10:29

I agree with pennastucky that GaGa is a narcissist dressed up as an "artist". I have nothing but contempt for anyone that excuses the behaviour of some of the most heinous abusers in the name of "art".

The following article on R Kelly outlines what a such predator the man is. He should have been locked up long ago and for a long time.

www.wbez.org/blogs/jim-derogatis/2013-07/timeline-life-and-career-r-kelly-107973

Nokidsnoproblem · 20/06/2014 11:11

I believe in freedom of speech and art... However I wish the media would'nt give her the time that they do!