To think this is actually massively disrespectful?

[sweetlilacsinspring]

I had some thank you cards for gifts sent to dd when I had her (2 months ago They were on the kitchen table.

I came in this afternoon and DH had obviously been on the phone to somebody - scrawled over every single card were phone numbers and notes like 'Anne - Santander - 765432'

He is convinced he's not 'really' done anything wrong.

She was planned. :)

He wasn't the most engaged during the pregnancy but he was supportive, especially when I was very sick in the first tri.

He does love both DCs, it is just to be fair he does work long, long hours and a baby keeping him awake could have severe consequences due to his line of work. I don't mind this, I was just at him ruining my cards.

Massively off topic, but if they were stamped and addressed, why not just post them when you went out with DD or did you just forget them?

Yes, I forgot them.