To think this is actually massively disrespectful?

[sweetlilacsinspring]

I had some thank you cards for gifts sent to dd when I had her (2 months ago They were on the kitchen table.

I came in this afternoon and DH had obviously been on the phone to somebody - scrawled over every single card were phone numbers and notes like 'Anne - Santander - 765432'

He is convinced he's not 'really' done anything wrong.

[sweetlilacsinspring]

She was planned. :)

He wasn't the most engaged during the pregnancy but he was supportive, especially when I was very sick in the first tri.

He does love both DCs, it is just to be fair he does work long, long hours and a baby keeping him awake could have severe consequences due to his line of work. I don't mind this, I was just at him ruining my cards.

[PuppyMonkey]

Massively off topic, but if they were stamped and addressed, why not just post them when you went out with DD or did you just forget them?

[sweetlilacsinspring]

Yes, I forgot them.