Was this really off?

[Everythingwillbeok]

So I have been at a party tonight to celebrate an 8 year olds birthday at my local cricket club.

Lovely night good weather/music ect just as I'm leaving a women approaches me saying " can I have a quick word" I'm intrigued so say yeah she then proceeds to tell me my jeans are too loose and her and her friends have been commenting all night that I'm stunning but my jeans are too lose !

I'm now annoyed that the focus of a kids party was my loose arse!

I just said uh ok thanks as I was pretty embarrassed I mean why would she approach me? I think I look ok my jeans were skinny jeans with a bit give with a tight vest and a blazer, why do women always scrutinize other women's bodies?

She said they are too big get done that fit! They are new and in my opinion very tight she said you need some that suck you in !

Ynbu. How very rude.

Very off. What on earth makes people think they can comment on the appearance/clothing choice of someone they don't know?

Ignore them. Wear what you like. It's no-one else's business!

She was very strange, YANBU.

If you were bending over with a thong half way up your back then I would understand a bit but that was uncalled for.

Very rude! Maybe she thinks telling you this is the same as telling someone they have lipstick on their teeth or their fly is down?!

If you like them and feel comfortable in them, who cares about this weird woman!

Also v sad that her and her friends have spent the party scrutinising your outfit and talking about it!

YANBU, what a weird thing to say to someone you don't know.

Cheeky mare.

Out of interest what was she wearing?

OMG! how bloody rude.
What a sad bunch to spend their time checking out and commenting on other's peoples clothes or appearance.
I'd of been sarky - 'Thanks but if I wanted fashion advice I'd call Gok'
YANBU

For real? I would tell them to get a life . What planet are they from ?

She was a cow, or at least seriously lacking in social intelligence.

Two words.

Well jel.

I hope you whispered back that she didn't fill her bra!

She what now?

That's just wierd. Did they really have nothing better to do at a party than scrutinise the fitting of a random strangers clothes? And why would you tell someone that's what you were doing? You haven't got a stalker have you?

Was she drunk?

Mmm think she was wearing a navy vest top(loose) and jeans she was pretty but plain.

I'm upset in an odd way ! I thought I looked ok,you know a kids party smart but fashionable. She was really in my face in front of my DD as we'll now I'm thinking my jeans are the most hidious things ever ! And I love them they are really comfy with a nice ankle zip she looked disgusted and wax saying they are very unflattering ??

It was a dare her mates threatened to give her a chinese burn if she didn't do it.

So you're 'stunning' with skinny jeans and a tight vest top and you're complaining about some jealous women. Hmmm - that tugs at my heartstrings as I sit here in my stretchy clothes looking a sight.

I'm sure you're a stunnah...

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'now I'm thinking my jeans are the most hidious things ever !'

Why are you taking what she said as gospel??

You don't even know her!

She got something out of saying that to you, nothing to do with your jeans at all.

Why the NM link Gini?

She sounds like a cow!

Her friends were commenting all night?

They spound like dicks too.

Ignore them, if you felt good who cares what some ransoms think.

Sound not spound.

Randoms not ransoms.

Honestly, because it sounds like something they'd get upset over.

I was suggesting OP would get the opinion she's after over there.

So she said they were too big and you need some that suck you in!! Sounds like she doesn't know what she's talking about!! Ignore her and wear your comfy jeans. People will usually comment nicely about clothes or say nothing at all. She obviously feels the need to say something to make you feel self conscious. She's obviously jealous!

Thanks guys I feel really embarrassed I don't know why.im normally confident but I think it's because I thought I looked nice.

It's knocked my confidence a bit, she said I've been wanted to tell you all night.

I just brushed her off as my DD was listening but now I'm home I'm still shocked I would never do this

It sounds like she has been jealous of your looks and confidence and decided to clip your wings. It's possible her friends said nothing of the sort or were maybe humouring her bitchiness. It would never, ever occur to me that I had a right to comment on some ones appearance. Just a bitch and I wouldn't worry about it.