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Was this really off?

34 replies

Everythingwillbeok · 07/06/2014 23:08

So I have been at a party tonight to celebrate an 8 year olds birthday at my local cricket club.

Lovely night good weather/music ect just as I'm leaving a women approaches me saying " can I have a quick word" I'm intrigued so say yeah she then proceeds to tell me my jeans are too loose and her and her friends have been commenting all night that I'm stunning but my jeans are too lose !

I'm now annoyed that the focus of a kids party was my loose arse!

I just said uh ok thanks as I was pretty embarrassed I mean why would she approach me? I think I look ok my jeans were skinny jeans with a bit give with a tight vest and a blazer, why do women always scrutinize other women's bodies?

She said they are too big get done that fit! They are new and in my opinion very tight she said you need some that suck you in !

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AtrociousCircumstance · 08/06/2014 00:04

She's an idiot. Don't give it another thought.

She had her own reasons for wanting to make you feel insecure. And who gives a shit what they are.

Wear your jeans, refer to it to DD in the context of how not to behave.

Everythingwillbeok · 08/06/2014 00:13

I think she is the SIL of my friend too who hosted the party do she will probably hear about it too Blush

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scottishmummy · 08/06/2014 00:19

She spontaneously commented in your jeans,appearance?how rude
Id be speechless,the uh-huh nod
Only later id think wtf

AgentZigzag · 08/06/2014 00:19

Why the embarrassed face? Your SIL will hear that someone was really rude to you, so what?

It's no reflection on you.

scottishmummy · 08/06/2014 00:23

Right lets be clear,your attire appropriate.
If you'd worn thong and nipple glitter,well that was worth comment
You need to practise your fuck the fuck off face

BigChocFrenzy · 08/06/2014 00:26

She's jealous of your looks. She needed to put you down, to make herself feel good about her own fat arse bulging out of her clothes.

She'd be delighted to know she damaged your confidence.
Don't waste another second of your life worrying about this

AgentZigzag · 08/06/2014 00:32

A fuck the fuck off face is seared into my brain as the 'hmm face' Hmm

Less hostile or aggressive than my other array of Looks, and you can always tag a catsbum face on the end if you need to.

SavoyCabbage · 08/06/2014 00:32

That is one of the maddest things I have ever heard!

whereisshe · 08/06/2014 00:48

God it all sounds so teenage. How old was this woman?

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