Where did I say that intellegent law abiding women wouldnt be welcome in Scotland exactly?
As you say, everyone has opinions and when I chose to challenge yours and express my opinion, you immediately "take it" that I am suggesting a person of different views would not "be welcome in an independent Scotland. Your words, not mine. Taking issue with your opinions does not make me anti English, or threatening. I have said nothing against England or the English.
You by contrast have had a lot to say that is anti Scottish, including your charming "humorous" story about the family on the plane.
"You're not the same family who I sat next to a plane from Aberdeen once, who were flying to Heathrow and then straight back again, they spent the entire flight discussing how exciting and interesting it was to leave Scotland for the first, time, be on a plane flight, etc. but how they would be glad to get back home, and they weren't going outside the airport into "that damned place". From the conversation, they were clearly just flying straight back again as soon as they landed."
If your "humour" involves looking down your nose at people who for whatever reason have never travelled, either through lack of funds/opportunity/education and to use that story as an implied generalisation for a whole country/nation then it probably goes a long way to expaining why you experience such vehement negative resonses from people
Substitute the "Scottish family" with "Pakistani family" and see how it reads.
I have 2 facebook pages one for work, which I dont use for any personal interests. Consequently , I get little or no Independence stuff. strange that you do. Again, can you link?
My personal page as I said, gets lots of indy debate stuff, and I repeat NONe of it is overtly racist or anti English. It is Pro Scottish, which in your eyes seems to be the same thing.