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To think this is a bit odd...

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ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 11/04/2014 16:13

NC for this.

I met a guy while on a night out. Went home with him (hoist the judgy pants to your hearts content)

Anyway, he has been texting and calling since. I've spoken to him on the phone and through text but it's getting a bit much.

As in, if he phones and I don't answer he sends a text asking me to phone. And then another text asking what I'm up to, then phones again.

He seemed on the face of it like a good guy, good company, same sense of humour as me etc but the texts a phonecall's are bordering on obsessive.

Last night after sending a message saying goodnight he then sent a picture of his face Confused no caption just a picture, followed by another 3 messages saying goodnight.

I'm not losing it am I? This isn't normal behaviour in the dating world these days is it?

Now before anyone say's it, no I probably shouldn't have spent the night with him but it was a bit of fun. I'm not really asking if it was stupid to go home with a guy I don't know from Adam, it is but it's done and dusted.

What do I say to this guy? Or do I just say nothing and hope he'll eventually stop texting/phoning/sending photographs.

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ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 00:37

Thanks Caitlin. It's moved on a little bit though. Thanks

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CantUnderstandNewtonsTheory · 27/04/2014 01:28

Ooh fingers crossed for you! Fwiw I'm normally regular as clockwork but last month af was a week late, it was completely random and I definitely wasn't pg. You've obviously had a stressful time with mr stalky so I would just assume it's that until you've poas. Flowers

ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 01:41

Thank you, I've always been regular too. As in to the day regular. Really hope it's the same as you.

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HeadfirstForTHiddy · 27/04/2014 01:43

I hope it's just stress making you late. Did he finally stop calling?

Good luck.

ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 01:50

I hope so too. I can't even sleep it's driving me round the bend.

He kept calling and texting with increasingly bizarre messages until last Friday. Nothing since.

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Goldmandra · 27/04/2014 09:07

He kept calling and texting with increasingly bizarre messages until last Friday.

Sounds like your instincts about him were right then.

I hope you managed to get some decent sleep in the end.

Waltonswatcher1 · 27/04/2014 09:22

He's a keeper ...
And I once again mn has made me look at boring Dh with adoration .

BumPotato · 27/04/2014 10:03

Any news?

ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 10:04

Took the test and the timer just continued. Typical, Sunday no chemist open for 11 miles and I have to be at a family lunch for 12 and no way I could get there and back in times with the way the buses run.

Looks like I'll have to wait till tomorrow now.

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BumPotato · 27/04/2014 10:11

The two lines type are less problematic.

Good luck tomorrow.

ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 10:17

Yeah, I actually actively dislike the clear blue tests but it was the only one in the chemist yesterday.

Thanks.

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ACockerSpanielCalledJarvis · 27/04/2014 11:17

Yey! My lovely friend had a couple spare from when she was TTC and she dropped them off. BFN Grin

Thanks for your support ladies.

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Mrsjayy · 27/04/2014 11:21

hE THINKS YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND BEING A BIT MAD WITH IT TELL THE GUY YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED END IT KINDER ALL ROUND

Mrsjayy · 27/04/2014 11:21

oh sorry not sure why i shouted all that

HeadfirstForTHiddy · 27/04/2014 11:53

Oh good for the BFN, that could have been problematic with clingyman.
Hopefully clingyman has got the message now too.

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