to produce a checklist to find out if people i know are nice or not?

[drivenfromdistraction]

It might save lots of time.

Question no. 1 (prompted by a current thread) would be 'Do you think that wheelchair users should always have priority over other users on buses?'

I am so stunned at the number of people on the thread who think the answer is 'no' that it is making me wonder how many people i know in RL think the same thing!

What questions would you put on your checklist?

Do you refer to your home as a 'property'?
Do you stare unsmilingly at cashiers/ waiters, etc?
Have you ever voted Tory?

I once binned someone abruptly to their face who was shaping up to be a friend when they complained bitterly about some poor soul who jumped under the tube. Apparently they did it on purpose to screw everyone's day

Anyone who is mean to their dc.

I tend to look at actions rather than words. I don't care what people look like. Oh, and if they think I'm less than fabulous then I'm a bit wary:) friends are supposed to make you feel good. Like hot butter being poured over asparagus, or a lovely warm bubble bath.

Not like trying to navigate a nettle patch.

Come on solesource.

I'm being supportive. Your DH has legs and he could scoop the fish out on his way.

you refer to your home as a 'property'? Do you stare unsmilingly at cashiers/ waiters, etc? Have you ever voted Tory?

I think we could be friends persimmon