Being black doesn't automatically make you aware of black issues. I'm actively try and educate myself on black history and the effects it has on modern day society, which surfaces in politics, economics, multiple socials issues etc, but heck I still know next to nothing.
Gollywogs were something that would not have offended me 10 years ago but having learnt more about my history, of course they do now.
Ralph perhaps you should do the same. Your post screams of embarrassment and trying not to be noticed as the black kid in class. Sorry to point it out but that is pretty much impossible.
Everyone body else, take note, one person not being offended does not count as blanket authorisation that something is okay. People for not choose to be offended, they either are or they are not. Listen to people arguments and research their perspective. You don't always have to agree but on this issue, I undemocratically state YOU SHOULD!
Ralph et al it takes seconds to educate yourself. Please just do it.
To me it serves as an embarrassment that people of a different race have taken the time to educate themselves about your history and you haven't. Its all well and good trying to convince yourself that you shouldn't be offended by blatantly racist things because they'll somehow disappear but do you have children? Its terrifying that you think that is an appropriate method to pass on.
History is documented and quite easily proves your theory
wrong. Please use the documentation to yours and your children's advantages. Believe me, they will be missing something (primarily self esteem - which I read in your post) if they don't learn it.
To ralph, genuinely, there is no offence meant here.