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Wibu to send ds as Spider-Man for World Book Day?

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pyjamaramadrama · 04/03/2014 20:48

Seems we missed the letter stating that they'd be dressing up (as usual), I check his bookbag everyday but we had no letter. Apparently it contained lots of cheap ideas.

Found out today they're dressing up on Thursday.

Which leaves me tomorrow to sort something out, and I'm at work tomorrow.

Ds has various character costumes but technically non from books.

He has no striped Dennis the Menace/Where's Wally type tshirts.

What do we do?

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shebird · 05/03/2014 20:54

YANBU OP life is too short to stress about these days and you have to work tomorrow. If the child is happy with their costume then that's enough for me I would rather depend the time reading with my DCs rather than costume making.

shebird · 05/03/2014 20:56

Perhaps it should be renamed 'world book costume day' as the focus seems to be on having the right costumes rather than actual books.

ArtexMonkey · 05/03/2014 21:02

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blibblibs · 05/03/2014 21:02

I asked my DC to go and get me there favourite book last week.
DD came through with Little red riding hood - easy Smile
DS came through with a stack of half a dozen books telling me he couldn't choose a favourite, and every last one of them were Star Wars books. Two have been replaced over the years because they have been loved to death. So I look like a lazy arsed mother because he's going as Darth Vader when in actual fact its because he loves the books.

TulipOHare · 05/03/2014 21:04

Of course comics are books! Anyone turning their nose up needs to go and read Persepolis or Maus or Sandman or Watchmen (not kids, though, I should add). Superheroes are the famous faces of a rich and diverse genre.

DS and DD are going as Wally and Wenda, purely because the clothes I bought can be used as regular clothes, but if DS had a superhero costume and wanted to wear it I would have no problem with it.

HaroldLloyd · 05/03/2014 21:14

Fudge you have made my night.

Best post, ever!

CalamitouslyWrong · 05/03/2014 21:15

Why would they need a book to 'back up their character'? Is it likely that the teacher would somehow not know who Spider-Man was and that he is the main character is a comic book series? Do the children need to do a presentation and provide evidence of their costume's accuracy?

Why on earth would going as mr bump or horrid Henry be somehow 'better'? Are these somehow 'canonical' texts for 5 year olds?

Have you tried to read the mr men books lately? They're genuinely dire. Horrid Henry isn't much better (and seems to inspire absolutely abominable behaviour).

Ludways · 05/03/2014 21:15

My ds has been as Spider-Man, Superman and Darth Vader before now. He was happy, that was fine with me.

pyjamaramadrama · 05/03/2014 21:28

I agree Horrid Henry is abysmal.

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shebird · 05/03/2014 21:29

As if the teachers are going to spend the day going through each of the 30 children's choice of book and character

IdRatherPlayHereWithAllTheMadM · 05/03/2014 21:33

We are going as Rapunzle, she doesn't understand the concept and sees it as a fun dressing up day.

She is 6 and has a large and vertible library at home and is an avid reader.

I am not going to rain on her parade and force her into what she doesn't want, she will be Rapunzle Grin.

I don't know why so many mums of under tens get so stressed about it, is it showing off?

IdRatherPlayHereWithAllTheMadM · 05/03/2014 21:34

As if the teachers are going to spend the day going through each of the 30 children's choice of book and character

They problem sigh with relief when the disney costumes flood in amongst the odd proper ones Grin

IdRatherPlayHereWithAllTheMadM · 05/03/2014 21:35

horrid Henry

I would put him well well below International and amazing Spider Man.

pyjamaramadrama · 05/03/2014 21:38

Thanks all for helping to stop me stressing over getting it right.

Just hope that ds is happy with his costume by the end of tomorrow.

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IdRatherPlayHereWithAllTheMadM · 05/03/2014 21:41

Devora

Grin Grin Grin

I would love you to come back and tell us all about costumes your school sounds fascinating!

WilsonFrickett · 05/03/2014 21:50

This year DS school isnt dressing up! I don't think I've ever been as happy about something ever - although I was going to just send him in normal clothes with a saucepan fool of goo for George's marvellous Medicine.

Anyhoo, he's taking his favourite book in, which is the Beano annual. I am just delighted, as a late reader, that he has a favourite book tbh.

Oh. One of my friends schools have to take is in potatoes decorated as favourite characters. Potatoes.

pyjamaramadrama · 06/03/2014 08:58

Wow, we'll I've just dropped ds at school and it seems that every single boy has gone as Spider-Man, superman, iron man, batman, in a football kit, with the odd exception of a fireman costume. Every single girl was dressed as a princess with a few red riding hoods.

They all looked very cute and I'm very relieved now that I didn't force ds to wear something else or I think he'd have been really annoyed with me.

Thanks all.

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fuzzpig · 06/03/2014 09:06

There were loads of spiderman at school this morning, loads of batman, captain america, iron man etc

fuzzpig · 06/03/2014 09:06

Yes most girls were princesses here too.

wonderingsoul · 06/03/2014 09:47

ds2 had quite few superheros..

ds1 had only a couple...

but i did hand the school about 30-40 books that iw as going to give to charity.. i had a big clear out the other day their books cases are overflowing..some had to go.

that help with my guilty that my children dont read the "right" novels!

fuzzpig · 06/03/2014 10:51

Finally reading the whole thread and wanted to agree wholeheartedly with this:

It's laughable that anyone would consider the dreadful pap that is Horrid Henry more challenging or worthy than the complex mythologies and origin stories that make up the marvel and dc superhero universes.

There are some amazing graphic novels/comics out there. I am going to introduce DD to tintin soon, can't wait. And as soon as we've finished our current bedtime book, the original Wizard of Oz story, I'll be showing her my marvel comics version (by Eric Shanower and Skottie Young) as it is truly wonderful, I recommend it to anyone who likes the original books.

I remember a thread recently where a child was told he wasn't allowed to read tintin books in quiet reading time Hmm FFS, they ARE books.

And as the stepmum of a severely dyslexic 15yo who is at last discovering a love of reading thanks to manga, I think they can be really great.

goldenlula · 06/03/2014 11:17

In ds2's class a majority of the boys were superheroes or pirates. There was one lion and ds2 as Mickey Mouse. I am hoping they do not take the mickey out of him (no pun intended) as they are quite a difficult and vocal class of 5/6 year olds. Ds2 was happy though and he had his book to support his character!

Oldraver · 06/03/2014 12:18

DS went as Dr Who again. He went as this the year before last but I did make his jacket and finally did the buttonholes last night

He really wants to go as Titanic Grin

I spent ages making his Kwazzi from Octonauts costume last year (Octonauts were originally in book form)

The aim is to promote reading, and I think that where that comes from doesn't matter

CurlyhairedAssassin · 08/03/2014 17:47

fuzzpig, I'm a librarian and totally agree with you re graphic novels. I have often observed reluctant readers (usually boys) getting into graphic novels, and then a couple of years later progressing onto sci fi and fantasy novels. We have loads in our library for that reason.

fuzzpig · 09/03/2014 12:14

Have seen similar here curly :) (work in a big town library, although am a lowly library assistant rather than a librarian :o)