I sometimes (rarely) work late. I mostly start the process of putting DD to bed - I suggest it; DH does her bath; I read the story. Usually at about 7.15-7.30.
DD has recently been ill (bad cold and temperature) but had been to nursery in the day. Therefore she was very tired and crotchety.
I got home at 7.30pm, fully expecting a bathed and pyjama-clad child.
No, DH was sitting on the sofa, unable to face the tantrum of telling DD to leave the ipad alone (I never let her on the ipad unless it is a special treat; on a long journey etc) and certainly not having done her bath etc.
Am I being unreasonable to expect him to do this? He does work hard and is normally knackered at the end of a working day, but even so ...!