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to wish people would stop saying I've been 'groomed'?

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SnowyChloe · 03/02/2014 13:12

Okay, I'm young but I'm over the age of consent and I'm of very sound mind. I'm seeing a much older man, one reason being that I really like him and another reason being that he treats me a hell of a lot better than most guys around my own age have ever done.

The bad part is that some people who don't know him are moaning and saying he's 'groomed' me into his bed. Am I a little racehorse or something? I'm a human being and we're doing nothing illegal.

Why don't they just mind their own business and let two people get on with their lives?

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Only1scoop · 03/02/2014 16:58

Well that's all fine and Dandy then Smile

BlueSkySunnyDay · 03/02/2014 16:59

Well as long as "Chloe" gets a good ride before he needs his zimmer frame.

aderynlas · 03/02/2014 17:04

All these horsey tales really made me laugh. Thanks all.

enriquetheringbearinglizard · 03/02/2014 17:04

Haha Iseeyoushiver I am that other bugger Grin All proud now Smile

Not too bothered about the OP situation really, it's interesting discussing a situation with bonefide posters, especially when it's a situation you have personal knowledge of.

StupidMistakes · 03/02/2014 17:21

I was 15, when I met my now ex husband who was 24, he treated me like a princess at first, loved the ground I walked and the feeling was mutual, unfortunately he turned into a violent, aggressive, maninpulative man, who after we got married showed his true colours. He went as far as stabbing me, and still I stayed because I believed it was me. He had picked me because I was young vunerable and niave.

We are now divorced and now I see why, though I don't say age gaps are all bad, there was 17 years between my parents, so it can work but does provide problems and depends on the motives behind it.

ForgettableTampon · 03/02/2014 17:22

Paha at you lot

OP has bolted to pastures new

ISeeYouShiverWithAntici · 03/02/2014 17:23

you are indeed that other bugger.

if only this thread was in chat, with the picture uploader

squoosh · 03/02/2014 17:23

OP was posing as a hot young filly when he is actually an old nag.

MaryShelley · 03/02/2014 17:26

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YouTheCat · 03/02/2014 17:30

I shall speculate, as MN have already said they reckon this isn't genuine, that the OP is 14, male and hasn't had a girl friend yet. Grin

WildThong · 03/02/2014 17:42

Neigh bother!

nouvellevag · 03/02/2014 17:50

Christ, did you lot hoof to saddle us with all these terrible puns?

squoosh · 03/02/2014 17:56

Apologee-gees.

BOFtastic · 03/02/2014 18:01

Trot on, love.

BOFtastic · 03/02/2014 18:03

Still, at least we know that the OP can't be involved with one of the BeeGees. Why? Because geegees give BeeGees the heebiegeebees.

MaryShelley · 03/02/2014 18:18

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ToffeeOwnsTheSausage · 03/02/2014 19:19

fuck

tricked again Angry

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