To be really upset with my DH?

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Every time our DCs are ill and I want them checking out he acts horribly towards me and speaks to me like a piece of shit. He's an excellent DH in most other respects.

When I tell him how much it upsets me he brushes it off. I don't understand why he wouldn't rather be safe than sorry when it comes to the DCs - most of the time I'm right to be concerned.

For example he's just gone bezerk as I want DS taken to the walk in centre. He's prone to chest infections and he's making funny breathing sounds.

I'm not sure how to deal with this.

My dh was a bit snappy with me about worrying too much re dd's health. I am a complete worrier in most areas, but with dd I knew there was something wr

Ah bloody phone.

I knew there was something wrong. After endless trips to the dr she ended up in hospital with blood in her poo. She has cows milk allergy and was in quite a bad way with every symptom possible. Dh apologised and now listens to me about dd's health 100%.

I can worry too much sometimes though so try to be as logical and rational as possible. A checklist is a great idea.

I really sympathise op. There is nothing scarier than fearing that your dc may be seriously ill. Even worse to not feel supported at that time too.