To still be with him?

[RalphLaurenLover]

I doubt this is the right place but atm I'm just not feeling loved and maybe I'm being unreasonable..

the beginning of this month me and do were having a serious conversation and he made it fully clear he doesn't 'love me like he use to' 'the spark had gone' he admitted to being lazy (never cooks as 'doesn't know how' (even emptying a can Into a saucepan). We both said we'd try more he'd try to learn how to cook and I'd stop being 'stressy'.

Since then he said he still doesn't love me like he use to, he will say he loves me when he's here otherwise he doesn't.

Yesterday he went 4 hours without texting because he said "I could of told him how my LO was, what I'd been doing, how I was and what I had planned for the rest of the day" yet when I did that today he told me there was no point in h replying because I told him everything .

He even said yesterday "isn't it ironic how you can't even make me erect anymore when I'm so touch sensitive" we use to have sex 3 times a day and we may have it 2/3 times a week if he's not to tired, busy, not in the mood, his tv programme is on etc.

Now I'm lying on the sofa because he's snoring, grinding his teeth and rolling in to me continuously in his sleep and I've had enough I just feeling like he's with me because it's easier and it's nice to have someone and he doesn't really love me anymore despite saying it. I however am madly in love with him

I'm nearly 21 and he's nearly 24 we've only been together 6 months

Tbh anyfucker I'm not
I can watch my programmes when I want without him complaining. I can go on my diet without being told I should get fatter, I'm better off and I know it I have for a month or so!

If you haven't read my past threads he's the one who proposed then took it back 3 days later because his mate said so

What a tool!
One day (and I suspect it will be very soon) you will look back on your time with this child-man and laugh your fucking head off. At him. Perhaps in an ironic fashion...

Well done OP

Well done. Enjoy the TV remote! And if people give you grief about it, don't get into a discussion, just say you've made the decision and you're really happy with it and invite them to be happy for you.

Christ Almighty, bullet dodged

What a manchild. You are far too good for such a plonker.

I've just had to remind him to remove his photos were were in them together, now being replenished with topless photos lol!

He's posting my key through the letter box tomorrow

Oh no - so sorry :( At least it proves you did the right thing. Wanker!

Hahahaha!!!

Just remembered his card has a photo of me on it! Me and my friend nearly wet ourself! ??????

And Hissy is right you know - I had a clingy, impossible to leave 21 month old and now he's a cheeky, confident 5 year old who went on a playdate without me the other week despite living in a NEW COUNTRY where he doesn't speak the language and only having met the other child's mum briefly at pick ups and drop offs.

I sometimes laugh at my ex's facebook page when he pops up on a friend's status or photo or something

Bank card that is

See, told you you'd be laughing soon about the tedious fucker.
G'on yersel hen (as we say around these parts)

Good for you OP!How dare anyone dictate what you should do with your body! I'm so glad you've done it, but as a PP said - you;re allowed to feel sad it's over, so don't pressure yourself if you do.

I got my keys back made the 'special trip'
Haven't thought about him all day surprisingly lol

Re your 'clingy' baby.

My son was the same. Taking him to school was awful. After EVERY holiday he'd cling and weep and I'd feel awful about how close we were. My sister said sardonically "He won't be like it at 15!". She was right.

It made me realise that I should just enjoy his baby/toddler/child years as they wouldn't be forever. He's partnered up with a baby of his own now! And we're still close.(but he doesn't grizzle when he goes home to his own family)

My DS is 4. We are very close. I'm married to his father and we have a baby DS too.

my DS1 has always been close to me and sounds just like your child. At 4 years old he doesn't like me going out but accepts it after much bribery.

So it's not single parenthood which causes a child to be so attached to their mother. It's perfect try normal!!

Why do people always do this? It must be because child is an only/youngest/middle/eldest etc etc. it is because all children are different and they don't arrive as blank slates but with a fairly firm idea of the sort of parents they want you to be too!