She's with her father, he collected her last night. We had our Christmas day on Monday and to me the actual date isn't that important - dd isn't fussed either. He knew we were having our Christmas then but didn't ask to speak to her then nor see, speak to or ask after her for the three weeks beforehand. He rarely has her for more than one night but on the odd occasion he's had her for two he's sometimes encouragedher to call me but if she starts deviating from what he's whispering to tell me (usually what he's bought) while I'm on loud speaker and she instead begins to talk about our home life he instantly puts the tv on so she's like a zombie and doesn't talk anymore.
She's back home tomorrow so when he said he'd get her to call me I said not to worry and to just enjoy their Christmas. Cue a text after she was in bed tonight telling me I'm a cold heartless bitch for not wanting to speak to my child on Christmas day
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to not speak to my 5 yr old on Christmas day?
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jinglemel · 25/12/2013 23:31
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