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To say it's mainly a 'white voice' on this forum?

243 replies

Wonderingg · 17/12/2013 15:13

I have been on the site for a few weeks now. I have noticed that it is possibly dominated by white women. If I am wrong please let me know, however I personally do not hear any black or asian voices. Or anything relating to those communities whether it be food, culture, clothing, traditions or issues specifically found in those communities.

OP posts:
cory · 17/12/2013 20:12

garlicbaubles, I think it is reasonable to point out that there isn't one huge "white" privilege that applies equally to all white people nor one huge "non-white" disadvantage that applies equally to all non-whites.

A Somali will almost certainly experience racial oppression in a different way from a South American of Quecha descent.

I think my Chinese relatives would have a job explaining to a white traveller exactly how he is socially privileged compared to them.

Until very recently there was huge racial prejudice against the Irish; indeed, there probably is in some places. People who are old enough to have grown up with "no Irish" signs displayed in public are likely to be marked by that. The Scots otoh have generally not suffered from the same degree of racial prejudice.

YouStayClassySanDiego · 17/12/2013 20:22

OP hoped to lob a grenade in and let others ignite it.

Epic fail there OP, it appears to be a reasoned and well discussed chat.,

DeWe · 17/12/2013 20:23

I'm reminded of a newsgroup I used to be a member of.
There was a huge arguement over something trivial and the OP ended up accusing one of the members of racism. Causing many Confused faces as ethnicity had never been discussed, and there were many different nationalities on there.

Turned out race of the OP and the person she accused were exactly the same. Op flounced.

ThreeWisePerpendicularVinces · 17/12/2013 20:32

For the purposes of MN, I have no colour. I'm just Vince and I like to be perpendicular.

Where are you, OP?

LilyTheSavage · 17/12/2013 20:35

How can you tell and what the fuck does it matter? (Personally I'm purple not white).

Xmas Grin
KatherinaMinola · 17/12/2013 20:35

"KatherinaMinola - Islamaphobia has nothing to do with this thread.

I really despise the ideology/philosophy of the the koran and hadiths.

I am non white and come from a country that is 98% muslim.

There are a lot ofn'white British' people who hate the ideology of the christian bible.

Please do not equate dislike of certain religious beliefs with racism. I find oponions like yours illogical, silly and quite frankly RACIST."

redshifter: taking issue with the ideology/philosophy of Islam is not (in isolation) Islamophobia. Islamophobia is a xenophobic mentality towards Muslims (parallels with 1920s/30s/40s Germany).

A few people seem to have got hung up on my brief reference to Islamophobia, which is a pity - I only mentioned it because I'd seen a few Islamophobic posts recently. Islamophobia is a subset of racism. I was raising the issue that there is racism on the boards here and it does often go unchecked.

Mintyy · 17/12/2013 20:35

Why are people continuing to reply to this absent op?

KatherinaMinola · 17/12/2013 20:40

I'm not replying to the OP anymore - but I am replying to the people who said I was talking bollocks...

CerealMom · 17/12/2013 21:34

HoFuckingHo - hummmm, gimp mask and orthopaedic shoes. Interesting. Whatever tickles your fancy...

TheBigJessie · 17/12/2013 21:45
babybarrister · 17/12/2013 21:58

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FudgefaceMcZ · 17/12/2013 22:19

What's a white voice? Is it if you say 'spiffing marmalade old chaps' a lot or something?

Sidebysideonmypianokeyboard · 17/12/2013 22:29

I have name changed for this because I AM BLACK and I self censor on MN because I can't be arsed with all the goady crap.

In RL I am 'conscious' and political.

And as in RL, in MN life I am aware of racism and the deliberate or subconscious bias that is associated.

So in MN life I choose to be ethnically blank and not have that bother. It's
fascinating. Some people say the silliest things when they think that everyone is white like them Wink , but I stick around because there are some witty and wise folk on here and because MN thread reading helps with my insomnia.

Now everybody sing... ' Ebony and Ivory ... Go together in perfect harmony' Xmas Smile Merry Christmas

plco1223 · 17/12/2013 22:31

i didnt realise typed words on a screen had a racial colour on them...and op, to your 'few weeks' I give you my nine years on here.

WilsonFrickett · 17/12/2013 22:47

And the name change of the week award goes tooooo......

sidebysideonmypianokeyboard

Oh Lord, why dooon't weeeeeeee?

Love it Grin

Heartbrokenmum73 · 17/12/2013 22:48

I had one particularly nasty poster assume that I wasn't white because I was calling her out on her racist views Confused.

Because if I was white (like her), shouldn't I be offended by these immigrants being given council houses and benefits like they're going out of fashion? And if I wasn't offended, then obviously I'm one of them too.

Surely something like that just proves that there are no 'white, black, Asian' voices, just voices of reason and voices of stupidity.

MrsTerrysChocolateOrange · 17/12/2013 22:49
the only thing of McCartney's I can stand.
Heartbrokenmum73 · 17/12/2013 22:52

Although would like to point that it's actually live together in perfect harmony Blush

Kewcumber · 17/12/2013 23:01

Many years ago when I was a young stripling of a thing in the days when you could see green fields from Mumsnet towers, I went to a mumsnet meet up and was startled to discover that a poster I had discussed many things with is black. It was particularly ridiculous of me to assume that any poster who hadn't declared a skin colour was white because my own son isn't white Confused

My word, I did feel silly.

Just saying OP, that you may want to reflect on my silly assumptions.

WilsonFrickett · 17/12/2013 23:02

Did it have a giant keyboard in the video or am I getting confused with Big?

Heartbrokenmum73 · 17/12/2013 23:06

Wilson - I rather think you're thinking of Big.

I just remember that they were sitting playing together.

But I was very young and could be wrong.

I'm just Shock about MrsTerry only liking one McCartney song

defuse · 17/12/2013 23:14

Agree with KatherinaMinola.

Caitlin17 · 17/12/2013 23:14

Wilson that's one more than me. What a strange thread this is.

WilsonFrickett · 17/12/2013 23:22

Obviously I was but a babe in arms meself heartbroken Grin I had it on a single. It would have better if they had a giant keyboard though.

MrsTerry is dead right btw. There are NO good McCartney songs. Except Pipes of Peace and that is only because it was no 1 during my one and only school residential trip.

'heartbroken' is my favourite Lloyd Cole song incidentally. So in my head you are an art school boy with a quiff. Int the Interweb marvellous?

minifingers · 17/12/2013 23:26

I've got a good plaintain recipe, and brown children. Do I count? Smile