Lottie
Here's what I'm getting at:
Would you believe me if I told you that I flew to the supermarket this morning on the back of an invisible dragon?
No. You wouldn't. You'd ask me for evidence. If I provided you with none, you'd rationally conclude that this didn't happen.
That's how your mind works 99.99% of the time. You don't believe everything people say just because they say it - people can say anything, right? And the more outlandish their claim, the more evidence we look for.
In other words, if I told you my Granny is called Doris, you wouldn't demand evidence....lots of Grannies are called Doris, that's not an outlandish claim.
If I told you my Granny was called Doris and lives on the moon - you'd want evidence to believe that.
However, you are completely willing to believe, without any evidence at all - and in the face of an enormous amount of evidence to the contrary, that dead people come back to tell their relatives that they are OK.
This claim is as unlikely as my one about the invisible dragon. But you'll believe one and not the other.
How come?