Aibu and a bit gross or was this a twatty comment from boyfriend? (maybe tmi)

[RainbowShadow]

When I have sex with my boyfriend we don't use a condom (I am on the pill and we've both been tested etc)

Anyway after we're finished I usually like to cuddle for maximum 10 minutes (give or take) and then I'll use the bathroom, wipe with tissue and then use a babywipe. Then I'll have a shower in the morning - as I do anyway.

Last night again after we'd finished (we're talking minutes), bf asked me if I was going to clean myself, I replied yes of course I was and that I always do anyway.

He then replied - yeah you do .... but not always straight away, and I don't want you to get all horrible down there.

running

The "sex" bit of the sex is sexy though..

Im so jealous of you all who can snuggle after and go to sleep. I get very veey nasty urine infection that turns from mild to bleeding etc in hours.

I always have a bath in evening so if nookie is on the cards that's fine, but I have to get up wee, wash, rinse dry and clean cotton pants!

Long gone are the days of sleeping in wet patches for me :(