...to not post a thread about something for fear of a bunfight?

[killpeppa]

Recently something has been bugging me but it seems many on here share a completely opposite opinion & get very defensive and sometimes nasty about it

Aibu to feel like I cant post with getting a bollocking about something I would have a seconds thought about?

You won't know if you don't try!

Maybe don't post it in AIBU?

Fuck it, just post it and if you get bollocked so what?

Words on a screen.

You might learn something or you might see there are others who agree and feel the same.

What is it?

Is it about how annoying it is when people post utterly vague threads in the hope that posters will give them lots of attention by asking what on earth it could be?

Dont post in AIBU

perhaps find a nicer board and slightly word your question to fit that particular board?

Agree that you may have a problem from your op.

Is is a problem, or a vent,, or a question or statement for debate?

Exactly as others have said. Give it a whirl and put it in chat. Although it depends on the subject I guess, as to what responses you get.

cocacola

no actually. Im not looking for attention. I was simply asking

mardy cow

Alternatively dont post about it.
I have left my ideas or 2 or 3 days and then dont end up posting at all. Best way sometimes.

What's wrong with bunfights?

Look I'll post in chat & await the fury haha

Lunatic it doesn't matter if it is in Chat. Nowadays, people are more than willing to jump down a poster's thread even if he/she hasn't asked if they are reasonable or not.

Go on OP, post it. We haven't had a bunfight in a while

Unless it's a very sensitive issue. Then, it really isn't worth it.

There is the 30 day topic, and another one hth

Ha

Getting a little tired of hearing 'bun fight' banded around....Can we change it to 'jam doughnut fight' or 'chocolate brownie brawl' or something....

Word it carefully op. Especially the subject title.
And I dont like to say this, but especially if it is likely to be controversial, try toget the spellng right, as there are unfortunately some who will jump on a thread that is controversial and isnt spelt right.

What is the title going to be, I want to check out the bunfight.

Oh bugger.
I only came on here whilst waiting for the kettle to boil.
Now I have to hang around and see what happens next.
I hate this bloody site .....

Ah bugger, full stop instead of > ?

Comma even...

And it's not just correcting the spelling.

It's a whole host of "Ha, you don't even know how to spell, how the hell can you ever bring up a child/sustain a marriage/make a pot roast/become the next Clare Balding..?" that is really annoying.

Pointing out bad spelling to win an argument is the lamest of the lame.

posted...

'killpeppas fear'

just asking, dont actually kill peppa.

I am totally up for a brownie brawl, post it!!

The OP in the P&C parking thread got a severe bollocking. I didn't understand that.

I agree it's mean to pick on spelling mistakes unless they are totally irresistible.

YABU

They can't type you to death

Even if they use upper case, it won't make you bleed