I am 9 weeks pregnant. My partner proposed to me last weekend. I was thrilled! The only thing is, he's is still doing cocaine recreationally.
He said he would stop once I became pregnant and he hasn't. He has stopped smoking weed every day (thank fully!) he stopped about two weeks ago.
But I just found out on Saturday that he had done coke the night before. I then also found out that he did it two weeks ago at a friends birthday. I don't know what to do!
He isn't some down and out Jeremy Kyle type, he is a successful lawyer and runs his own firm. It's not like he's doing coke every day, it's just once a week, but I know it could potentially end up being more frequent as time goes on.
He is having a "lads night" this Saturday. His mates all do coke, smoke weed and do pills. I know he will end up doing something.
Am I being unreasonable asking him to stop taking drugs? It's stressing me out and I can't sleep at night.
He thinks I'm being unreasonable. He thinks I'm being over emotional about it and making a big deal over nothing.
Should I stand up for myself, refuse to back down on the drug taking and risk losing everything? Or should I just keep quiet about it and accept it?
Comments greatly appreciated