...to ask this mother to wash DD's jacket.

[MamTor]

DD just come in, soaked through and with no jacket.

Said jacket, is, apparently, languishing in a piss filled puddle.

Story goes, boy 1 pisses in puddle, boy 2 takes jacket of DD and throws it in puddle.

What. The. Actual. Fuck?

One of the boys lives opposite us, I've never met his mum or dad. But I guess I am about to.

It's not the first time we've had trouble from him.

She is refusing to wash the jacket according to DD.

Oh dear, I fear this will not end well.

What do you mean she has refused? Has your DD asked her to?

Just go and get the jacket and wash it yourself.

The less interaction you have to do with people that think its acceptable to piss in puddles and take jackets off little girls the better.

Yup, I think DD has waded in there and said my Mum wants it washed.
(Even though I said I would deal with it).

What disgusting children. I don't hold out hope that sgevwill wash it and tbh I'd rather do it myself so i know it's been done properly if that makes sense.

It's disgusting your poor dd

How old are they? Can you not just wash it yourself?

I'd remonstrate with the parents over the pissing not the washing.

It won't end well if you make a mountain our of a molehill...

What woowoo said.

I would wash it yourself. Not everyone washes things to the same standard.

Would you really want the jacket being "washed" by people who think its okay for children to piss on jackets?

Yes yes Woo but I am so angry (PMT). I know that's the sensible thing to do.

But he truly is a shit, last week told DD. "Fuck you and Fuck your mother"
He is 9.

Love how everyone's focusing on the fact he wouldn't WASH the jacket! I don't think THAT was the purpose of the OPs post. OP, can you contact the school?

Just wash it yourself, ffs.

Well the title does ask if she's being unreasonable about the jacket being washed...

Definately go get it and wash it yourself. It'll probably end up 'lost' or mysteriously damaged if you demand she washes it.

Is your DD alright? What disgusting behaviour.

I would wash it myself regardless, I find different washing powders bring out rashes on DC.

Yes, I can wash it myself, but why the fuck should I? Why should I wash some 9 year olds piss out of my DD's jacket.

Sensibility tells me to just go get it and wash it, but the Rottweiler in me says go get it and tell his mum to was the bloody thing.

Do what you like then. But if the child is like this I certainly don't imagine the parents are going to be reasonable.

DD is fine, she is a tough old nut.

Obviously you shouldn't have to. But given the vile children and the vile language and the fact that their mother doesn't give a crap I think your better off staying away. Don't want them pissing over your car or shitting in your garden as a payback.

Im stunned tbh it's beyond disgusting

His mother is likely to stick it in a boil wash with the dog's bedding, do it yourself and rise above them.

Go get the jacket and wash it yourself , scoop up the pissy water and post it through her letterbox. I am about as tolerant as you are.

I have to say I wouldn't even wash it. I wouldn't want my dd wearing a jacket this vile child could say he's pissed on. I wouldn't want her to wear a jacket that had been pissed on, even if I washed it.

They shouldn't wash the jacket- they should buy her a new one.

Wash DDs jacket yourself. Just do it in a separate wash cycle.

You will get no joy from the boy's parents, just a mouthful of abuse...... Next time, they could push your DD into the urine puddle.....

If she saw the boy peeing in the puddle, call the community police and tell them he exposed himself in the street......they wont like that.