why is mumsnet so unfriendly and shit compared to netmums

[hellogals]

Ive changed my name as im peeved off. I asked for a genuine bit of advice about dd2 school, and i got abuse. Everyone is so unfriendly and jump down ur throat. Its very clicky in here and they all stick togethet. At least on netmums u get a fair hearing and gd advice, its crap here.

People come on here for an ego trip and im sick of it. Have a bit if respect and decency for peoples feelings!!! Grrrrr wish it was properly monitored

Sincere thanks for brightening up my night, OP - feel free to come and spread a little stardust at MN any time you like!

By bigging up NM, and sending everyone that way that is.

Oooo, I want your puppy! Looks snuggly! going to bed now, honest

Are we acksherly allowed to be on there and here?

IS.IT.PERMITTED?

You been feeding them decomposed seal again SDTG?

YouTheCat, where did you get the impression that Zombie was veggie? She's partial to broccoli, mind, but only alongside a nice juicy bit of meat.

kidz iz vile -fact

right I am rummy and off to bed - but OP ask your self night xxx

Oink glitter, mmmm

Oh I seriously have the love for youthecat and now I must sleep x

Heheh yup oink glitter I imagine piggy shapes all sparkled and pirty

Now the op's ducked off and I'm none the wiser bugger, I've gotta go to bed

I don't know, Zombie. I'm on my third glass of

I probably think that Miley Cyrus is good or something, by this time of night.

Zombie I think that smoke has gone to your head

Oh dear, has she ducked off? Maybe she's fucked off too now who can't spell

There's been a bit of stress chez EvilWolef tonight, HoneyBooBooDragon, and it seems to have upset NeuroticHound's digestion. Massively. Everywhere.

She is NOT coming upstairs for a cuddle on our bed.

Dh is saying it is time to go to bed, but I am having fun here - OliviaMN - you are a wonderful, wonderful, twin-gestating human being, so please, please, please don't delete this thread before tomorrow? I will send you biscuits and hugzz and stuff!

Night, Gordy

Oh dear. I prescribe regular sips of gin for you and dh to stay mellow tomorrow. Purely for the dogs sake.

Is this a stealth thread about MN royalty and bullying? Joy.

The nastiness is certainly mostly in the minority I think, even now that the site is so much bigger. There are some very intelligent and educated people here and I think the thing to do is avoid AIBU unless you're happy to get 'robust' replies.

It isn't that sort of smoke, Tiredmum. Sadly...

I like the 'robustness' of AIBU.

I think it's a while since I started a thread anywhere though.

Sorry, not read all the thread. I'm a regular user of both Mumsnet AND Netmums and have been for a few years now.
Yes, Netmums is more about the support, and a lot more fluffier in general, but that's not to say that Mumsnet isn't.
With Mumsnet, it's more blunt and straight forward. If you're talking shite, then you're more likely to be told that you are in a to the point way.
Netmums are more likely to sugar coat it.
Both sites are great, although you do need a lot thicker skin to post on here. Shrug it off and give back just as much as you get.