ok, first of all Dp and I both work full-time, although he puts in a 12 hour day, whereas mine is an 8 hour day.
I don't drive, dp drives for his job.
I do every single bit of the housework, and despite hectic schedules, I manage to keep the house in quite a clean and tidy state, although dp's shoddiness can often make it look untidy even after I've spent my whole day off cleaning it. I asked him to start doing the vacuuming every other day, but he hasn't lifted a finger. When I say I do everything, I mean everything, oh, but because dp does stay in bed longer than I do one day a week, he makes the bed.
I've got used to doing all the housework and all and don't generally mind too much, but today I feel tired and to avoid the two-hour-long bus journey home, I asked dp to pick me up on his way home from work. He would have to come 5 miles out of his way for this, but seeing as he lives in a fucking hotel like the prince of Sheba, I thought he might like to do this for me. He said he wouldn't though. Ffs, I am pissed off now. It's not the first time he's refused to collect me. On average I only ask him around once every few months to pick me up. Everytime it's a no. I suppose I should learn by now not to ask.