I've spent the last few years saving a deposit to buy a house.
I'm now about to buy a house.
my gf has little to no savings so has no prospects of buying or even going halves with me on a joint mortgage.
I was gonna buy my house and she was gonna move in. all lovely and exciting.
now all of a sudden she's concerned that if we break up, she'll be left with nothing.
I asked her if she expected me to give her some portion of my house if we ever broke up and she said yeah. she also asked why I can't just put her on the mortgage.
I just feel so incredulous at the request that I've basically just told her to get bent.
am I being a dick here or is she bang out of order?
if we moved in and she was paying half the mortgage I could understand but all along its been discussed that it'll be me who pays the mortgage and she contributes to bills, etc. mainly because she earns about 50% what I do so can't even afford to pay half of all the costs anyway.