To be so angry and upset by this?

[babyperks]

One of my college friends was talking about booking her wedding for either next August/September. I was really happy and excited for her, and looking forward to her big day.

Then tonight I find out she's booked it for the same date as mine and OH's anniversary, when she knows full well that it's our day.

I am so angry and upset about it, but don't know if I'm overreacting?

So, AIBU?

[TidyDancer]

This has to be a reverse AIBU, surely?

[Dackyduddles]

Nobody but u cares that its your day. And that's as it should be. It's ur day. Doesn't mean I have to remember it for u does it?

[ShadowStorm]

Actually, all that about not being able to remember what month the last wedding you attended reminded me of something -

DH & I went to a wedding last month. One of DH's friends. The next week, I realised that I'd missed a local NCT nearly new sale. I spent a few minutes going on about how there'd been a nearly new sale on such and such a date, I'd missed this opportunity to try and pick up some stuff for DS etc - and then DH said "What, the sale on the yyth? But... we were at X's wedding on the yyth of June". Less than a week after the wedding, and I'd already forgotten the date the wedding had been held on