To stop DP going on lads holiday???

[MummytobeDC2]

DP and I are in our twenties, and I am 13+5 pregnant, due in November. His friends have decided to book a weeks holiday end of August, start of Sept... DP asked if I would mind him going and I said yes as il be 7months gone I have DS to previous relationship so will need the help and money etc... He got upset etc and made me feel exceptionally guilty. So me being me said he should go for a long weekend and come home before his friends, stay 3nights, that way we are both happy! His mother advised us "he should go as it will be his last" and he keeps repeating that now complaining after agreeing to the long weekend he wants to go for the week!

First of all I will be 7months, I have DS I need help with and the money would benefit the baby, flights and accommodation are costing £300 and spending money, well, at least 2weeks wages! We are far from flush!

AIBUR????

Please tell me I'm not insane?

mummy I was just about to comment but thought better of it. Take care ! I'm still bouncing, so over this now!

chewmebush ha ha ha ah I always wanted one if those!

OP if you report your first post, mumsnet admin will delete the thread for you.

I think if you're skint your DP shouldn't be going. Why does he think it's ok to spend money that you don't have?

Am also at 'doggy dog world'!

Cat, not necessarily.

I could be a lot more if you like? Ha

I need a blue Peter badge... And would love if mumsnet hurry up and delete this thread out of my life... Some people are off on tangents and its boring the life out of me, also I have neglected housework due to this.... at least if its gone I have no distractions

I agree upthread YWNBU but seriously you are being unbelievably rude now.

Yes I do know I am being rude, sorry if I have offended you personally.

I am a highly hormonal pregnant woman and the conversation is over so I don't appreciate people getting their two pence worth when they have not fully read/understood.

I'm not offended and totally get the hormonal pregnancy thing. It just jars a bit to be honest.

The best thing for your blood pressure would be to hide the thread and not come back to it.

YABVU and controlling.

Thanks shelly - another two pence in my pot

Yabu its not for that long & once baby is here it will be much longer. I coped over the Olympics/paras at 34 weeks with dd 2 years whilst DH worked away on them. Do you have friends/family that can help you out whilst he's away? X

Baby bee we can't afford it, that's my point, being pregnant is just an added factor. We are not flush and I don't think he is considering the financial side for the sake of a family. As I have also said - he went on holiday 3times last year - two one weeks and one weekend - so I never usually stop him doing anything 1500 is a long of money to be boozing with when there is a baby due xx

Wow gang up on the OP again, that's original on AIBU. Good look OP with the baby and the future. I hope all works out for the best xx

Hmm, it is a lot of money to spend just before baby. If I think about it I guess I would hope that DH wouldn't want to go.... Maybe he's just thinking he might not get chance to do stuff like that once bub arrives? (May be why he's unwilling to compromise to 3 days - which would cost less so solve part of problem!). I guess I was on my own cos DH had to work, not go off sunning himself drinking away our pennies!! Plus I think if rather spend the money on a family holiday all together. Suggest that ! Good luck & congrats on pregnancy.

Ps the first and last time I posted in AIBU I got totally flamed and almost 800 replies! Never again!

Thanks chewmewhat will be, will be

What did you post about babybees?

Im intrigued.....

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