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Original poster

to be still p####ed off with dh for dropping a pint of milk on my pelvis this morning ?

30 replies

SUMMERFRUIT · 17/04/2013 15:19

This morning, when Dh was about to go to work, I was still in bed. He was at the door, said that the milk was there. I said it will take you 2 seconds for him to put in the fridge.

Next thing I know, he came in the bedroom and threw the pint of milk on my pelvis. It hurt and made me cry a little.

I could see on dh's face that he thought that I had completely overreacted. He said sorry, saying he didn't mean to hurt me but I could see he was unrepentant. Arsehole.

So ????

OP posts:
NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 17/04/2013 15:20

What a wanker. Is he always like that??

Sugarice · 17/04/2013 15:21

He threw a pint of milk on you whilst you were in bed? Shock.

He is a massive twat, what else has he done to you Summer?

hopkinette · 17/04/2013 15:21

Did he drop it or throw it?

KobayashiMaru · 17/04/2013 15:22

LTB

Binkyridesagain · 17/04/2013 15:22

Arsehole! Him not you. IS this normal behaviour for him?

Unacceptable · 17/04/2013 15:23

That would be assault then.
Has this happened before?

Either way, not a relationship I'd be happy to remain in.

drjohnsonscat · 17/04/2013 15:24

He tells you that the milk is there, so you can put it away?
He throws things at you?

This doesn't sound good Summer.

diddl · 17/04/2013 15:26

As in a glass bottle?

Not that it really matters as surely throwing anything at someone is abuse?

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:27

Really?

What on earth made him think that was an ok thing to do OP? Hmm

Davsmum · 17/04/2013 15:28

He sounds like an idiot.

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:29

Oh...and the fact he doesn't really give a fuck that it hurt (I mean, he knew it was glass I presume and that it would hurt) makes him sound like a raging arsehole

Wishiwasanheiress · 17/04/2013 15:31

He threw a pint of milk at u? Seriously???!

Not a massive step before its a fist luv! Get out NOW

ShanksYoni · 17/04/2013 15:35

What the fuck?

Tell him to get out.

Are you okay?

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:39

Oh, forgot the big fat YANBU!

Urgh

Tailtwister · 17/04/2013 15:40

Good grief, that's awful! Is this kind of thing in character for him?

I had a bf at university who threw a portable tv at me once. It landed on my hip and it was bloody painful. Unfortunately I couldn't see how abusive his behaviour was, but my friend could. She called campus security, but he said it was an accident (and I supported his story).

I would advise you to think very carefully about whether you want to continue with the relationship, especially if he's done this kind of thing before.

TigOldBitties · 17/04/2013 15:41

It doesn't sound like he meant to hurt you, its a point of milk.

Obviously be pissed off that he did hurt you but he said sorry and he didn't mean it.

Probably just a bit of an accident, he said he didn't realise it would hurt that much.

Original poster
SUMMERFRUIT · 17/04/2013 15:42

it was a plastic pint of milk, he threw it slowly on my pelvis as a joke as he says. He didn't think apparently.

He never does that sort of things, he was just a big fat twat. And I'll show him this thread.

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HarderToKidnap · 17/04/2013 15:45

Sounds like the sort of thing DH and I might do (plastic pint of milk lobbed slowly onto tummy which is covered by thick duvet, rather than glass pint bottle hurled with force, obviously). I can't imagine it hurt or that he meant it to.

CSIJanner · 17/04/2013 15:46

Tig - RTFT. He threw it. Accident my arse! Could have left it on the side or even just inside the door. He didn't. He intentionally threw it. The man is a twunt.

Summer - has he acted out like this before?

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:46

haha very different Grin

But still, shitty. Show him this thread, just for luck.

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:47

(though tbh I'd still think he was a bit of a wanker for that...no need for it & it is disrespectful IMO)

LaurieFairyCake · 17/04/2013 15:49

Sounds like you have someone who is annoyed at you getting to lie in bed while he is up and out to work.

Which of course makes him a massive wanker.

TigOldBitties · 17/04/2013 15:50

I've read the fucking thread CSI, why don't you read my fucking post properly.

It is quite obvious, that I am saying it was an accident that he hurt her. I haven't disputed that he threw it at her, I've said he probably didn't realise that it would hurt that much therefore the hurt caused was an accident.

It was a plastic pint, you would hardly think that would induce tears. He's apologised.

TheYoniKeeper · 17/04/2013 15:51

Reread your OP.

Tbf you could've worded it a little nicer but still, a bit of an over reaction on his part.

helenthemadex · 17/04/2013 15:53

he is a big fat twat, what he did is not acceptable, unless he is a complete dick he will know that it is very likely to hurt