Strip club!

[everythinghappensforareason]

So dh has been kicked out back to his Mothers following a night out Saturday, that ended at a strip club, not only that but also paying for a lap dance from a young girl in nothing but a thong. Ive never been so mad, there was 3 of them. It makes me feel sick, he has apologised + claimed he didn't enjoy it one bit, it was worse than he imagined etc. but i just feel like people around me ( his family) Probably think im over reacting, so my question is, what would u do?

[countrykitten]

Eyes don't make assumptions about my sex life as you know NOTHING about it and just discussing it with someone like you defiles it.

What is your problem?

[Ledkr]

Because eyes you clearly do have opinions on female sexuality and roles which aren't really the norm and demonstrate that you feel you have to put up and shut up just to please your man which is very sad.
You "learned" to enjoy stuff so you could please your man? That's very disturbing.
For a grown woman your attacks on others are very immature.
To suggest that if you are married a long time then your husband wil inevitably look at porn is a very teenage thing to say.
To think that all men look at porn is also something if expect from a younger person with limited experience of men.
I know for a fact my dh doesn't look at porn because I could care less if he did so he doesn't need to hide it from me. Despite being such an uptight hag we have a very close and satisfying relationship and I certainly don't fake enjoyment for anything and neither does he and I certainly am not repulsed by his taste

[Ledkr]

Did you notice you had a post deleted btw?
I didn't and neither did anyone else.
That's cos you're rude that is and we are not

[BelaLugosisShed]

You have a very disturbing view of sex and in particular, female sexuality Eye.
Nobody should have to endure something they find unpleasant (sexually) , men don't die if they don't get deepthroated or anal sex you know, no decent man would want his partner to do something she doesn't enjoy, especially if it's physically painful.

P.s. if semen tastes unpleasant then it's a dietary issue.

Your spiteful dig at me is only showing your own ignorance btw.

[OliviaMumsnet]

Ahem.

[Ledkr]

Who's that to Olivia? Surely not I ?

[Tolly81]

Eyes what is this about? Why are you hijacking someone else's thread? I've sat and read all of this thread I think and can't really understand why you think your experiences of faking orgasms, anal sex or blowjobs are in any way relevant or helpful to the OP. By all means start your own thread about how uptight we all are, how much porn our DHs are reading, how many orgasms you've faked today, etc etc etc ad nauseam but give it a rest on this one will you? And you are being needlessly rude and unpleasant to people you know absolutely nothing about.
OP - hope you're doing ok. I assume you may have abandoned this thread as its been a while since this has been on topic but if you're still reading please send an update.

[ChairmanWow]

They're not tolly. Eyes clearly has a lot of problems with other women, mainly it seems other mens' wives. We are, after all, the competition. Better to think of us as ugly, bitter and sexless than the women our partners chose to be with and enjoy having sex with. We also of course have the power to influence our partners' decisions about whether to visit strip clubs because of the consequences. I can see how sex workers might feel threatened by that. We take their trade away, give it for free and do it with feeling. What stripper could compete with that where there is a good man involved? As for the low view of men, well, I would bet dealing with lowlives is an occupational hazard and would skew anyone's view of the male gender.

I think eyes demonstrates a misogynist attitude which runs right through the sex industry and sadly women working within it are drawn in too.

I hadn't intended to dwell on that so much actually. Just came back to see how everything is feeling and to say as a fellow mum to a newborn and toddler, hang in there. Lots of us are thinking of you .

[Gossipmonster]

I don't think anyone's semen tastes "wonderful" - and I've sampled my fair share in my time :)

[EyesWallowsPunk]

Tolly, feel free to dress me up as some sort of cunt if that makes you feel better. I couldn't give a flying monkey's fuck what you can or can't understand about my posts.

[EyesWallowsPunk]

Chairman, lots of men who enjoy having sex with their wives patronise lapdancing clubs. Not sure of your point. I have escorted many men who have wives just like you at home. This 'power' you have over your husbands does not extend to their wallets, I'm afraid; I made thousands and thousands of pounds in my thirties having the time of my life with men just like your husband.

Gossip, 'tis true - my husband's semen is great can't say the same for his father's, though

[EyesWallowsPunk]

Why are you here, Kotina? Your point has already been made

[Gossipmonster]

Well must say - you sound lovely :)

[ChairmanWow]

Cross-posted. Kotinka - second that idea. Any way MNHQ can intervene? Happy for any of my posts to be deleted/moved.

[ChairmanWow]

On second thoughts any chance eyes can just be escorted off the thread? It's just getting so personal it's ridiculous.

[rhondajean]

Are we not supposed to enjoy anal now?

[Gossipmonster]

Hoping OP is ok and works it out with her OH :)

[countrykitten]

And everything wishing you well and thinking of you.

[Ledkr]

If your hisbands semen tastes wonderful why did you need to " get used to the taste?"

[rhondajean]

Yes there's a distraught person somewhere and it's not really the place for a discussion on women's sexuality - why don't you go start a thead in FWR?

[Ledkr]

Also on your other thread you say you are "poor bastards" where is all the money you earned from escorting our husbands then? You sound like a fool now to be honest.