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Was I Unreasonable To Have Complained About This Advert...?

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PeppaFuckingPig · 25/02/2013 16:59

Firstly, I should say that I am very anti-cheating. I was cheated on a couple of years ago, and I am still trying to come to terms with it. I have recently also severed all ties with 2 friends due to cheating. These were very good friends of 20+ years. Friend A was having an affair and friend B was providing her with alibi's etc. That is how strongly I feel about cheating.

Ok, so that was just a bit of background.
Today I saw the TV advert for Flora Buttery and was absolutely horrified. The tagline of it is "Go ahead, cheat on butter."
Am I being unreasonable in thinking that they are encouraging/glorifying cheating?
That they are using the word cheat as if it is something good to do?
I'm not only concerned about cheating in an infidelity sense, but cheating in things such as school tests/sports etc. If children are watching this advert, they may see no harm in cheating.

I emailed Flora company directly to tell them how disgusted I was with the advert, and their lack of morals, and to tell them I would never be buying a Flora product again.

However, when I told my mum what I had done she told me that I had over-reacted and that it was just an advert and I'd behaved like a 'crazy thing'. I left her house and haven't replied to her text.
I'm really upset with her and don't feel that I did over-react.

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WildThong · 25/02/2013 19:56

Do you think Olivio Olivia is on tonight?

PeppaFuckingPig · 25/02/2013 19:58

I have 104 Facebook friends.

How very sad to know the total.

Why is it sad? All I have to do is look at the friend section on Facebook. I'm not counting them all individually with the use of an abacus. It says right there - 104.

morethanpotatoprints - thank you for your kind post, but I am honestly ok. Thanks for your concern though.

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PeppaFuckingPig · 25/02/2013 19:59

...Actually, 103 friends now.
Someone else obviously doesn't like my Flora views.

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MarmaladeTwatkins · 25/02/2013 20:01

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! You are great, OP! Grin Thanks

DioneTheDiabolist · 25/02/2013 20:02

Oh OP, I hope that your e-mail doesn't lead to your being marginalised by your FB friends.[concerned emoticon]

WildThong · 25/02/2013 20:04

sorry

MarmaladeTwatkins · 25/02/2013 20:04

Dione Grin

Oh this thread has cheered me right up...

firesidechat · 25/02/2013 20:06

Op, please please put me out of my misery. This is a windup, right?

MarmaladeTwatkins · 25/02/2013 20:06
BrianCoxandTheTempleofDOOM · 25/02/2013 20:06

Ok, so all bases are covered - the company, Ofcom and ASA.

Have you thought about contacting your local MP?

He/she may not be interested, but am sure you could butter them up and get some help?

MarmaladeTwatkins · 25/02/2013 20:07

Oh stop it. My sides....

stoatie · 25/02/2013 20:10

Just another lurpaker here.

Never mind the cheating - its the Cat revolution you should be worried about

www.milkmatters.co.uk/cats/

stoatie · 25/02/2013 20:10

pfft

www.milkmatters.co.uk/cats/

VisualiseAHorse · 25/02/2013 20:12

I did actually LOL then.

Still18atheart · 25/02/2013 20:15

This is hilarious.

WilsonFrickett · 25/02/2013 20:16

Poor OP.

Hope she feels butter soon.

cocoachannel · 25/02/2013 20:18

It's like endorsing John Lydon running of the the Lurpack trumpeter (or the Anchor cow - okay too far ).

MissAliceBand · 25/02/2013 20:21

It's not saying, go and sleep with someone else. It won't make men or women in relationships suddenly realise that they could be having an affair.

Oh I don't know, what if your significant other only ever slathers themself in butter... and then you stumble across some fine specimen rubbing himself all over in Flora.

The advert pretty much forces you to shag him. It'd be rude not to.

ThedementedPenguin · 25/02/2013 20:22

This is a fantastic thread. Very very funny.

I agree about the friends op but I do think your over reacting with the butter.

I could almost guarantee your the only person who thinks like this about the slogan.

usualsuspect · 25/02/2013 20:26

You need to get clover it.

babiesinslingsgetcoveredinfood · 25/02/2013 20:29

Surely not real? Please?

Oh we'll, YABU

RockPaperScissorsLizardSpock · 25/02/2013 20:30

Where's the OP scone ?

babiesinslingsgetcoveredinfood · 25/02/2013 20:34

Ah I see, this thread is Kerry gold

It could be funnier though, I can't believe it's not b e utter

MissAliceBand · 25/02/2013 20:35

Actually this reminds me of the time Clover suggested I roll 'it' over in the clover, roll it over, spread it on and do it again.

My husband got a nasty rash.

This was in 1998. Do you think claims direct will still pursue it for me? It's affected the way I look at both margarine and green fields ever since. The idea of a picnic brings me out in cold sweats.

Perhaps we should petition the government to abolish all margarines. They're clearly a danger to society both physically and psychologically.

PeppaFuckingPig · 25/02/2013 20:37

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/1692814-Where-do-you-store-your-butter?msgid=37486000#37486000

It seems that some people will switch to butter, despite the best intentions of Flora. Good to know.

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