This really is pointless. Korma either can't or won't (I suspect it's the former and there are probably other issues at play here) see HOW or WHY her posts were OOO.
Ditto, REPEATEDLY acting as if the primary issue (child/autism/routine/etc) does not exist, and it's 'just' the - pretty grim for anyone, including Korma - of lack of heating/hot water etc in below freezing temperatures. I think it's hilarious that my post got deleted (presumably as someone hit report as I re-quoted someone else's view and added to it the what strongly appeared to be the absence/s of basic humane attributes) yet when I was called "highly irresponsible" on Monday for having the audacity to have contracted CPox whilst preggers and DS & I could have died, that that was fine
TBH though, WAY less hilarious is the fact that OP is probably cowering in a corner now as got UTTERLY laid into by Korma and in a manner that DID feel like the 'playground bully' someone else has described it as. And also, whilst you have every right to Korma, re-quoting (and WAY out of context), one piece of someone else's post yet leaving out the 6 very reasoned points that were before that (re Autism, re walking in someone else's shoes, re not 'presuming' we KNOW someone else's circumstances) DOES slightly undermine your point.
The SOLE thing I do agree on with Korma is that the heading of the original post DID sound a bit hysterical - and then we each have a choice right? My choice was (is) to think 'OMG, clearly this is someone under a huge amount of strain/stress' and feel empathy; Korma's was to take umbrage at it, make assumptions, and have a rip-fest at OP. Other thing that's becoming clear is manifestly Korma ALSO has a pile of crap to deal with (as, incidentally do I and probably many other MNS'ers) and maybe that's why she was so vitriolic? All I know is that if Korma (or ANYONE) posted in what was pretty evident desperation about whatever her personal challenges were, I'd respond with kindness - NOT laying into someone.
And Korma, if you're still in that place and come back for another pop at me, don't waste your time as I won't be responding. I feel more sorry for you right now than anything and I hope the issues YOU are dealing with are resolvable, or if not resolvable, then do at least ease for you and DCs... As I do for OP.