To make this woman delete her video?

[lunar1]

I went out today to spend some vouchers my boys were given for christmas at build a bear workshop. Ds1&2 had their chosen bears and we were queuing for the stuffing machine.

Sorry, not Sharon but maybe she was the one filming!

I once won £100 worth of bab vouchers off here.

That got 3 bears and 3 outfits, and I had to add money. Rip-off.

Very grateful for the experience though

what do you think she was going to do with it? really? a video of fully clothed children in a public place? I don't know why someone would want to video a stranger's children but I thin all this obsession with strangers is a bit ott really. so ... yabu.

That was a bit weird of her, yes

Yanbu, as that is just weird

To be fair, I wouldn't want someone filming me either, especially a stranger

No...that was weird. YANBU

(Ps love the anticipation build up there, waiting to work out how the title related to the op!!)

Yanbu.

I have no idea what she would want it for, it just seemed so odd

Sorry shipwrecked the actual post was probably much more boring than the anticipation!!!

Its not dull but It's a very straightforward AIBU!!!!!

yanbu, thats strange

yanbu i would have made her delete it too. why the hell would someone film someone elses children in a shop?

Yanbu that is super weird.

That is very odd and I wouldn't have been happy. Sort of compliment I suppose, but not right.

YANBU that's just creepy.

I would have asked for deletion too.
Very intrusive.

YANBU, I would have done the same, not that my DD ever stays still enough even to be videoed.

Yanbu

Weirdo.

If you were in an episode of Tales of the Unexpected you would go to wake your boys tomorrow morning and they would have been replaced by giant teddy bears.

OP of course YWNBU.
Wannabe- thiswoman's intentions might have been completely innocent but it's still a bit off to film someone else's children without expressed consent. Also, without trying to sound alarmist, children do not have to be unclothed for the to be at risk. Ppl who deal in the trafficking of children will take photos and film of them, clothed or otherwise, to show to potential "customers". I don't tank it's fair to suggest the OP was overreacting. It's really not poss to be too careful with pur babies IMO.

YANBU. There was probably nothing sinister about it but it's just plain feckin rude.

Thank goodness the majority are saying ianbu! She was just so odd I was already uneasy at her invading my space. I was worried I had over reacted

It wouldn't have worried me in the slightest.

But then DP has the view 'if it feels wierd, then it is wierd.' Which is probably a safe attitude to take.

I wouldn't like it.

I wouldn't want my kids filmed and the possibility of the video being posted online.

I would find it weird if she was ignoring her own kids.

It isnt the risk of child snatchers so much as an invasion of privacy. It is rude and bad manners.